How can I have a better bond with younger brother?

Question

I am 13, he is 9, and we are like siblings (we argue and fight) But it seems like I don't understand why he does things, and why he acts the way he does. He plays video games ALL the time, and it seems like all he lives for. At school, he doesn't have that many friends and the kids call him weird. And I hate to say it, but sometimes he does act weird. I think that because he quotes those crazy lines out of video games, and it gets annoying. But I am his older sister, and I want to have a strong bond with him, and I want him to be able to talk to me and know that I am his friend no matter what, because I love him.

A side note is that he has ADHD, and I don't clearly understand what it is but from what I see from everyday living with him, he focuses on the wrong things (like video games instead of school). But how can I have a better bond with a sibling that has ADHD.

*please give info. about ADHD also if you can

Answer 1

If someone asked you the same question what would you say to them?

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Answer 2

if he is 9 you need to give it time, because i am 16 and my younger sister is 13 we used to fight but now we get on so well. all i can say is look out for him show him every now and again that you are there for him no matter what, because at the end of the day you will always be brother and sister, hopefully you will get closer to him as he becomes older :)