How can I help her? ?

Question

I have a frnd who seems really sad. Her b/f broke up with her 8 months ago and she can't get over him. She's seeing someone else who she seems to like but yet she misses her ex.

I have no idea how to help her. The weird thing is there are some days when she really seems happy and then there are some days in which she really seems sad. She's seeing a psychologist but it (apparently) isn't helping.

The guy she's seeing told me that she has even started drinking (something that isn't her style at all). When I asked her why she does those things,she responded "it's the only thing that can instantly reduce the pain"

How can I help her??

Answer 1

let her talk about him, why she loves him, what she likes mostly in him... just anything she thinks about him...

it helps to stop thinking and missing people

Answer 2

Don't help her. I suggest ending your relationship with her also. It will only affect you in a bad way if you continue your relationship with her !i