How can I help my 2yr old daughter adjust to her daycare?

Question

She has been going to daycare for four days now the 1st day she cried a little bit the 2nd day she told us good bye but the 3rd and 4th day she was really upset. Also at home she is really clingy and fussy and at night she won’t sleep in her room all night. I’m not sure if this is a normal reaction this is the first time she has ever been in a daycare. When I call the daycare they tell me she is doing fine. Two days out of the four she has been upset when we pick her up. I talk to the director of the daycare and she tells me that she noticed that she is having trouble transitioning (like when they move on to another activity she will get upset) I’m not sure what to do to help her adjust and I do realize that its only been 4 days but like I said we have never gone throw this so just need some advise

Answer 1

Bring a family photo to hang in her cubby and bring a special "lovey" object for her to take out when she's having a hard time. Remember--it takes a full month to form a habit. Don't let her come out her room at night. If she wakes, march her back in, even if she's upset. Now, she's adjusting to a lot of changes and to let her stop sleeping in her room will bring on more changes for her. When you drop her off at daycare, let her know you'll call and check on her throughout the day (call the room directly and speak with her teacher directly) and that you'll be back at X time. That way, her teacher can give her a countdown to when you'll be back to get her. Even if she doesn't understand time, she will know you are coming back. Don't drag out the process of leaving. A quick hug, kiss, telling her to have a good day and when you'll be back and walk away. End of discussion. Maybe a couple of days a week at first, Grandma or an aunt or someone can pick her up partway through the day so the transition is easier. Just a thought. Good luck and keep at it!

Answer 2

maybe she is scared, has she been away from home before? she is probably frightened from everything new around her. when she is told to switch a new activity maybe she felt comfortable where she was. i don't no if that will help. hope it does =)