My son is 9 years old. He is a wonderful, funny, extremely smart little boy. He is very giving and would give you the shirt off his back, but doesn't make friends easily. He goes to public school and is usually a loner. It isn't that he doesn't want friends, but he has already experienced being used for his kindness. Some of the kids bully him b/c he is a loner and doesn't do what they want him to. He has been basically robbed on the school bus by bigger kids who stole his candy when they were selling it for school b/c he just let them take it and didn't fight back b/c I've taught him to use his words instead of his fist. This isn't working. He is becoming more and more cynical and doesn't like school anymore because of it. Being his mom and #1 fan, I want to fix it, but if I step in, I'll be putting more pressure on him with his peers.
His father doesn't know of this or he would be on his bus with him and I'm trying to avoid that.
What can I do to help my son??
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