His grandmother once had custody of him and his sister and they saw her stealing on a day to day bases. They were abused physically and emotionally for a while, not by her only at times it was by her boyfriend. So now after having a 4 year custody battle, we are trying to fix what was broken by their grandma. He(son) has been stealing left and right, appears to be sorry and when we turn our backs he is doing it again. This leads to me and my girlfriend arguing because we have different ways of handling the situation. She was away from them for so long she feels guilty and does want them to feel she does not love them and also doesn't want them to want to go back to their grandmas. He(son) is in counseling not just because of the grandma,but also has some issues of his own already. I feel lost and I know she does too we are trying everything from policestations,taking toys--tv time, not letting him go to friends, even spankings. WE HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING! I JUST HOPE WE ARE NOT TOO LATE.
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