My ex is breaking the #1 rule for divorced parents! I have learned that he and some of his family members have been confusing our daughters, ages 4 and 5 by telling them negative things about me and my boyfriend. He has told them " I don't like your mommy anymore".
"Your mommy and Jim are not my friends". "You don't have to listen to Jim when he tells you to put your toys away" My heart is breaking for my daughters. They are too young and impressionable for these types of statements. It's as though they feel they have to choose between their parents. When I tried confronting my ex and his mother, they both said they were only telling the truth to the girls and did not want to lie to them! Can you believe it? When I try to have further conversations about this, my ex just screams obscenities into the phone and hangs up. My focus is on my daughters and trying to keep them emotionally stable. I would appreciate any advice, expecially from someone who has been through this!
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