How can I help my husband get mature with responsibilities in the family?

Question

We are in early marriage both we are 21 then we got married due to my unexpected pregnancy. He is kind husband but still thinks he is single, he cant control what he really want in consideration of his responsibilities in the family.

Answer 1

Don't bug him. Just let him go and do whatever he wants to do. Each time he comes home make him happy but at such times, subtly bring your real feelings out. It should not be a direct complaint to him but it shoulde be like talking to yourself about the deep sadness you have and the pain you feel when you have to carry such responsibilities without assistance. The key is to draw on the deep inner part of him that has feelings for you. This is the best way to address the situation without driving him away

Answer 2

Learn to live with whatever he is like or else separate your ways!

It's futile to try changing others... doesn't work.

It's my deep experience with personalities that is saying it to you, lady.