I am nineteen and a sophomore at a university some 400 miles from my hometown. I have a brother who is seventeen and will be going to a university more than 500 miles away next year.
I call my parents every weekend, we exchange emails, and my mom writes me a letter each week. I also get to come home at Thanksgiving, Christmas, spring break, and for two weeks in the summer. They make the 8 hour drive up to see me in October and February.
So, we don't see each other that often but we do keep in touch, and I expect it will be about the same when my brother goes to college since he's only 100 miles west of me.
But I'm kinda expecting my parents to have empty nest syndrome. It seems to be a pretty common thing among parents, even those whose kids live locally. Obviously my brother and I will live much further away, so it's a little harder on them.
So once it's just the two of them and the dog, how can I help them out? I'm particularly concerned for my mom, because my dad works very long hours (at a minimum, ten hour shifts six days a week) and is often either working or sleeping since he's on night shift. So she doesn't see him all that much even though they do live together and love each other very much.
I mean, it's pretty much going to be my mom by herself... and she's a strong woman, but it is a big change, and she has a really stressful job too.
I want to make sure that I can still be of some help to them, and still provide some emotional support.
How can I do that?
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