How can I hide My sleaziness from My husband?

Question

Well, He already knew about My past. We met at the street corner I was working on. He just doesn't know how much I am still involved in the business.

Answer 1

In the long run you probably can't hide it.  You need to answer the question:  do I love my husband more than the business or the business more than my husband?

Answer 2

you help me hide mine and I will help you hide yours...ok?

Answer 3

On the street corner huh?

I almost fell in love with a pushcart peddler too. What do you do...sell pretzels?

Answer 4

Just follow my lead here "R"....use and keep to a very strict "alter ego" code of conduct. So long as nobody gets hurt or pregnant your ok and its all healthy. You just gotta train your mind and body to accept separate meals and menu's sometimes. Whatever, learn to relax and have some private time just for you.

Answer 5

Depending on what type of sleaziness it is, he might not WANT you to hide it from him! :-)

Answer 6

Ur in the biz? Please elaborate!!!!!

Answer 7

Why, what have you done this time?

Answer 8

Treat your husband right or get out of the union.  Secrets like these never remain hidden & karma is real.

Answer 9

For better or worse, that includes "sleaziness" so share it with him.  Of course, if that sleaze involves another man, than girl you should not have gotten married.

Answer 10

if you need to hide anything from your significant other you really shouldn't be together

Answer 11

would he really mind?

Answer 12

why not get him involved? unless it is not his thing.. this is something you should have figured out before hand...

Answer 13

ok there are some really ignorant answers on here.

i personally think that you should tell him.

and u might be surprised.. usually significant others know more than you think, they just don't say anything about it for the same reason you don't. or they might be in denial. i would be honest with him. and like i said, if u met him that way.. he might already be under the suspicion that you're still doing it, but either way he needs to know.. how would you feel if he were hiding something like that from you?

and the longer you wait the more pain your going to cause, or he could hear it from someone else.  

Answer 14

Why hide it? He should know all the sides of you and love them. If you have some side that you want to hide from your husband like "sleaziness" I think your asking the wrong question, doll.  

Answer 15

If you really love him tell him. Dont hide it. Hiding it will take a toll on you!

If he wants to leave you because of this then maybe you should stop being involved in this business. If he stays then you are fine. If he thinks that you can do better than what you are doing then do better.

Be careful and good luck

Answer 16

I'm sure he's already aware of how sleazy you are