I have an 18 year old son who just started college. He had a good job over the summer & saved a good amount of money up until he got a new girlfriend. Then she convinced him he needed all his clothes from Hollister, a new car stereo, a tattoo, the list goes on & on. He went off to college with almost no money in his account. Now he expects his dad & I to give him money to come home every weekend (a 4 hour drive one way) just so he can see his girlfriend. He says he "shouldn't have to" get a job at college to make his own gas money. We are standing firm on this and haven't given him any money, but now he is angry & pouty, doesn't call us, and he HAS been spending what little money he has to come back here but he stays with friends and won't come see us when he does. He has everything he needs at college, food, room, ect. are already paid for so it's not like we are starving him or something. We feel that he is trying to manipulate us to give him money. Are we being unreasonable in expecting an 18 year old to act a little more responsibly? Should we give in, or will he eventually come around? We are trying to be strong, but his behavior is really hurtful.
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