How can I live a good life when everyone's better than me?

Question

You don't understand. I don't feel like living anymore. Ever since my stay I found it hard to do anything with my life because everyone is better and worth more than me. I cant do **** no more. Disturbingly, everywhere I go there's a downside. The people at school b4 the summer were better than me at everything. They had better grades, social skills. Their talents are better than mine. They're worth more than me because other people enjoy them more and they have more clothes. Other people are healthy and actually do things with their life while I just sit and rot. Everything about me is a downside. I don’t have any money and when your poor, you’re trash. I don’t fit any of society’s requirements to live a good life. Never really respected by guys either. I'm too dumb to make it life, something is wrong with me that the doctors can't even find out, and I don't have any skills. Worthless. Basically, I’m trash waiting to be disposed. How am I supposed to enjoy life when everyone’s better than me?

Answer 1

u dont hav to be better than any1 else.

as long as u hav fun and enjoy wat u do, even if ur not as gud at it as sum1 else, then thatll be fine! :)

Answer 2

No one is better than you, the only thing keeping you down is your attitude not "the people", if you have confidence in yourself things will get much better for you, if you continue to feel sorry for yourself and put yourself down over and over, your choosing your fate and you will end up the way your telling yourself you will.

No one again keeps you down and NO ONE is better than you, I can tell you this but you have to think it to make it happen.

Guys don't respect you because you don't respect you. Doctors can't find out whats wrong with you because they can't diagnose you being wrong with you. When you think money is everything and you can't do anything about it, your making yourself trash.

Crappy Woe Is me attitude = Crappy Life

Believing in yourself, Having Confidence and respecting and loving yourself = Good life people loving you respecting you and going somewhere.

Sorry to be harsh but its true the only thing stopping you is your attitude buck up and do something about it. Someone is always going to do something "better" than you but no one is better than you if that makes sense, find what your good at. Don't say nothing either everyone is good at something, right now the only thing you are good at is putting yourself down and calling your self a trashy looser, if thats what you want to be by all means continue.

Answer 3

You can start by turning around this thought and putting all of that frustration or sadness towards improving yourself in something you are really interested in!

I'm not an excessively happy or optimistic person, and for most of my life I lived 'down-in-the-dumps', caught in this vicious cycle of lacked motivation and self-pity. Things got a little better once I tried to take hold my life again, and it wasn't through religion, or some near death experience but that one day I realized I didn't know how much longer I could really live like this. It's cliche, but you'll always be your own worst critic, and until you do something you alone are proud of and make decisions without a thought or worry about how other people will react to it, you will never be content!

Live by YOUR standards, and NOT according to another's.

Answer 4

Are you serious?  Everyone is better and worth more than you?  Trash waiting to be disposed?  You just sit and rot?

I'll respond to a few of your statements:

1) Disturbingly, everywhere I go there's a downside. - Everywhere everyone goes there's a downside.

2) They're worth more than me because other people enjoy them more and they have more clothes - You are very unhappy; that's why other people enjoy them more.  Obviously you are very young to be worried about clothes.  Trust in God that when you get a little older and more mature this won't be such a big deal.  

3) Other people are healthy and actually do things with their life while I just sit and rot. - I don't know how old you are, but can you take a class or join a gym?  If you can't afford it how about a free running club?  Or a book club at the library?

4) I don’t have any money and when your poor, you’re trash - I have been really, really poor (on welfare and public housing) and was NOT trash.  Don't buy into that b.s.

5)  Never really respected by guys either - Don't sleep with anyone right now because your head isn't right.  Period.

My goodness, what the heck is making you so unhappy?  Just make sure you graduate high school or get your GED and move the heck out.  Go somewhere that you can make a difference and succeed.  I feel bad posting that other mean message to you (even though you were such a smart a** on mine) now that I know you're this sad.