How can I love my husband more?

Question

we are married for 8 years .some times I feel nothingI mean no love no passion....is it possible to love him more

Answer 1

does he give u less attention??

maybe that could be it y u love him less

Answer 2

Think of the reasons why you feel you don't love him.  Does he argue mistreat you.. puts others before you.  It could be you don't like him as a lover.  Is he cold, just thinks of his needs,  and doesn't bother with what you want or need.  Once you can identify why you feel and think the way you do.  You can start working on the problem.  But in order to fix whatever is going wrong in the relationship.  He has to be willing to work on it too.  It takes  both the husband and wife,  making an effort to improve things.  It will not work if only one of them is willing to try.

Answer 3

I know the feeling.  My hubby and I went through the same thing.  Try having a date night once a week that is set is stone....with no kids!  Go to the movies, go to dinner, visit friends....just no talk about bills or boring day to day activities.  Good luck!

Answer 4

I have been married for 24 years. Lots of boredom. My wife and I do a lot together. That helps. She helps me outside and I help her inside. Life is not always going to be thrilling but just being together doing things helps. I hope you work it out. Good luck  

Answer 5

We've been married for (almost!) 8 years too.

I don't love him any less than when we married, but we do find that 'dating' each other again keeps us out of that rut.

Go out for meals, have a laugh together.  

Answer 6

To love your husband more all u have to do to understand well & more .This is all what a man requires . It is for the women that they needed to be loved more than to be understood more. besides after this much years of marrige you both need to add spice to your married life by doing some teenager kind of activities like looking forward to a special momenrs of daily life doing nothing but giving surprises by instant kisses or hugs or  making love as much as posssible.  

Answer 7

Go to a s*x-shop together and get a few goodies to spice things up. Try role-playing like schoolgirl/teacher or hooker/policeman...LOL! BUT seriously have a romantic night with you two only! I'm talking  candlelight dinner, take a bath together, massage each other, then make love.The next day you two will be glowing! Try it out!

Answer 8

Love is a choice and it takes work.  You need to talk to each other, spend some time getting to know each other again, and think about the things that first made you fall in love.