How can I make him stop liking me?

Question

We've been cuddling, but I feel guilty now since I like his friend. He's friends been asking if I like him and they told me he does. How can I make him stop liking me WITHOUT disgusting him or being mean? I want us to stay friends.

Answer 1

I don't understand your question clearly, thus my answer may be incorrect.  I suggest you should let him go easy: telling the truth and say we can still be friends [he will know somehow later, which hurts him more].  I believe most boys like to continue being friends, expect when it's a break up with a girl, so don't be discouraged.  Say it with a soft, shy(to show you feel guilty) smile, not too big, or he will think you're happy.

         Study his reaction, and get his opinion( what he thinks about this) with  a good attitude.

REMEMBER: Tell him the reason! Very important.

No matter what, the bad news will upset. Try to cushion the damage, and change topic ( his interest).

If all fails, let him think about it alone.  Most guys love to be left alone to calm down; it's their way of showing respect.

I wish you success!

Answer 2

That's hard.

I guess u could let him no, but talk to him gently.

don't try to make his friend like u just yet.

Just wait until he get's over u.

first of all

witch one of them is the cutest?

Answer 3

you cant make anyone stop liking you...thats just the way it is...you cuddled with him, which gives him an idea your attracted to him so im sure he thinks you like him...next time slip something in a conversation like "i love you like a brother...or your one of my best friends" then he'll get the idea hes just a friend

Answer 4

Be honest.  I know it sucks but you can't control their reaction.  Explain your feelings and let them decide.  That or try and hook him up with one of your friends.  Just don't lead him on anymore.  Another thing... your young, there are plenty of guys out there.  Some are meant as friends, those who don't stick around after the break up aren't.  Do what's best for you and let them worry about themselves.

Answer 5

just f**t in front of him, that will sure trigger him lol

Answer 6

Just Treat him as A best freind, Be like " I like jason and i want u to get me in touch with him" Make him ur TRUST instrument :)

Answer 7

well... stop trying to lead him on!!

stop cuddling with him.. you could start with that

Answer 8

Well duh...obviously stop cuddling with him. Tell him flat out that you just aren't interested in him that way and do not continue giving him a reason to think so.

If you interested in his friend, go after that guy. If he values your friendship enough, he'll get over it and move on. If you're close friends though, leave his friend alone and find someone he doesn't know. Dating your friends friend when your friend likes you is usually a bad thing.  

Answer 9

Well a big fat hint, if you don't want to just tell him how you feel....would be to always make sure that you aren't alone with him. That way he won't try to make a move or tell you anything deeply personal that would bring you closer together.

Just make sure you are always in a group with him. You can be nice to him, exactly as nice to him as you are with everyone else in your group. You don't have to be unfriendly.

You also need to watch touching situations. Don't make much physical contact with him at all. Watch how close you are, keep some distance. I'm not saying it's a freak out if you touch him, and don't bust out the yardstick to make sure. Just don't get within an intimate distance of him. You will know that boundary when you cross it.

And watch your topics of conversation. Even if you are keeping a healthy distance, and in a big group, you don't all need to be yapping on with Truth or Dare, I Never..., etc.

Your relationship has been kind of like a rubber band. It can expand to be bigger, and wrap around both of you binding you together...and it can be smaller, so that you both don't fit inside it at one time, or so that less of each of you fits inside at one time. You can expect that when you unwrap something from a rubber band, the band feels empty and stretched out. But it will shrink back in a matter of time, and then it will be less awkward than it is now.

Answer 10

were u cuddling while liking his best friend...if yes I think u know the answer there...u sound like ur under 20, don't worry neither of them are probably ur husband so make life confusing for urself until u mature enuff 2 know not 2 play with ppl like this.. sorry but ur not serious about either one of them..ur young keep having fun..

Answer 11

what the...why would anybody with a functional brain cuddle with someone they don't have romantic feelings for? You are whack.

Answer 12

You shouldn't have been cuddling with him in the first place. Besides your to young anyway to be dating.

Answer 13

umm...tell him u jst wanna be friends? and if he is a good guy then he should understand and if he gets mad then wow...lol but he should understand

Answer 14

just tell him that you just want to be friends ad that is all you want from him i have two guy friends that are both in love with me and aren't afraid to tell anybody but they both know that i am not attracted to them and i am dating one of there best friends and there still my friend we still hang out all the time i have cuddled with all of them there is nothing wrong with cuddling i promise it will be ok just be honest it helps a hole lot

Answer 15

Your story is such a cliche

Answer 16

I like mayonnaise.

Answer 17

you are a hoe. you are the type of girls i hate. go apologize to this guy right now. he doesn't deserve this.

Answer 18

hes gonna give up once he figure out you dont want him, hopefully you wont want him when he dosnt want you anymore! hes gonna get tired of runnin behind you and find a new girl

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Answer 19

just start to distance yourself, talk about other guys a little infront of him small stuff that will give him the message that you dont feel him like that