My boyfriend has got a serious case of possesiveness issue and I don't know how to deal with it.
He has got many girl pals and he is quite close with them. But I know he doesn't look at them in the wrong way so I don't object to occasional hugs or simple friendly touches between them (which happened even before we were going out). His female friends are my most favourite people but I still don't object to him spending time with them. Big picture - I don't, in any way, curtail his freedom and allows him to be friends with whomever he wants to, even if they are my enemies.
He, on te other hand, is very bossy and seems to have a huge problem with my guy friends. He keeps telling me not to talk to some of them so much and maintain my distance. His excuse - "They are not right for you, they want you in a different way." or " Do you like me or them better?" I mean, wtf? Who is he to decide? Right? I have clearly told him not to interfere in with my friends but he still does, either by telling me or them off.
PS: I don't have any female friends and I admit I have had many ex bf from my friend circle.
But he should know I like him right? I mean, thats why I am going out with him and not them! We have a great relationship going on otherwise and I want to sort this issue out. Clearly talking frankly isn't helping ... Please suggest ideas ...
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