How can I make it...?? I really need some help?

Question

Me and my fiance really wants to have baby, we have been trying for a while, but the thing is His brother girlfriend has a baby and she is fixing to have a baby and his dad's wife is fixing to have one too. and my two best friends just had a baby a few weeks ago i am happy for them i really am i did go and see my friend after she had her son, i could not stay long i just could not do it... and today we went to see his dad seeing the baby stuff and her and his brothers girlfriend I got really really sad i am happy for them just i just don't know what to do, how can i make it to where I am not so sad... does anyone know how I feel.?? How did you dell with it.

Thanks

btw I an going to find out tomorrow what the test showed and see if I have PCOS

Answer 1

Read "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" to get a better understanding of your body and when YOU ovulate.  This book would help you know if you have PCOS or not already!

Answer 2

I don't think there is any right or wrong way to deal with a situation like this. It must be really hard. I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks last year and found it so hard to see baby's around, to hear of friends getting pregnant and to see pregnant women. I think one way to deal with it is be proactive and try to find out why you are not concieving, if you are actively doing something about it, you may not feel as bad, and then it will happen for you. I am really sorry, this must be very hard for you.

Answer 3

Some days are more difficult than others. Sometimes you just need to cry. Don't get discouraged if you have pcos. I have that among other problems as well and I am going to have my first baby in december. So no matter what that test says you can conceive. It took us almost 6 years and 6 miscarriages. Not to say that will happen to you, but to show you it can still happen. This little baby boy is a miracle. I watched as my teenage sisters gave birth to their babies. At times I felt so angry and at times I felt so sad that I wished I could just die. I thought that maybe it would never happen and that felt horrible. I couldn't look at a baby without getting emotional and wishing so much that it was mine. I was giving up hope. I have other friends going through the same thing. One friend has pcos and she has a little boy now too. That encouraged me. Good luck and I hope it happens for you very soon. Hang in there and try not to get discouraged.