How can I make sure none of my kids grow up to be g*y?

Question

It would kill me if I had a g*y kid.

Answer 1

You're not going to like this... there's NOTHING you can do... it's innate!

Answer 2

What right do you have to impose your opinions on your child??? you're pathetic!

Answer 3

I've often asked myself the same question.  Of course, I would love her totally and unconditionally anyway, but I would prefer it if she wasn't g*y.  I am sure that if your child DID turn out g*y, that you wouldn't stop loving him or her because of it.

That being said, I often tell my husband to make sure he's covered up properly because seeing THAT at a young age would make anyone g*y (it's a joke, people).  

But seriously, I am sure to let her see the love between her father and I.  When she asks about it, we do mention that we don't approve of that lifestyle, and we do not openly bash them or make any rude comments about it.  We tell her that it's their business, and explain that some people are just wired that way and some people choose to be that way (our beliefs).  We have g*y friends and I have a g*y uncle, and I let her know how much we love them because of who they are inside and that their lifestyle choice does not affect that.  

At 12, she is grossed out by same-s*x kissing, so I think she'll be heterosexual.

I think you should be sure not to openly put them down or anything, just explain it when it's asked about, while adding in your own personal beliefs without trying to scare them.

Answer 4

wow..

how do you think your kid would feel if they didn't have a supportive parent and lived in a society where 77.5% of the people didn't accept them?

you can't make sure

just love them

Answer 5

Here's How:

                                  "STOP BREEDING"

*Maybe your kid doesnt want a Dad that is straight.  Just stop breeding, keep your genetic material to yourself.  Try being a part of the solution, instead of the problem.

Answer 6

Sorry, but its something theyre born with. ** I hope if one of your kids is g*y you have a nice afterlife because theres nothing you can do about it...

** I learned in psychology classes in college that being g*y/bi is a birth defect (for lack of a better word), too much estrogen or testosterone while in utero... think about it, a boy who got too much estrogen turns out to be a g*y guy who is sensitive, likes to shop, has a high voice (most of the time) etc. Like a woman. A g*y woman who as a fetus got too much testosterone is butchy, dresses like a man, hides their b***s (most the time) etc. See what Im saying? Cant get mad at something they cant help! Open your mind.

Answer 7

are you for real?

Answer 8

You can't.

And statically speaking, each of your kids have 10 to 12 % chances to be g*y, no matter what you do.

Live with it and be thankful that no matter what they turn out to be, they are healthy kids with good values and respect for others.... including g**s!

And with comments like that, you might end up killing them if they turned out g*y and had to come out to you. Do you know that suicide rate is the highest amount g*y teens in the USA?

Is this because you would be ashamed of them? Afraid of what the world would think of you because of their homosexuallity?

Answer 9

You cannot stop someone from being g*y.  It is a life choice, the same as when you decided that you liked the opposite s*x.  

Why would it kill you to have a g*y child?  What's wrong with g**s?  Are they not people too, or have we still not crawled out of the stone age and realized that everyone is entitled to love whom they want to?

I'm sorry but anyone bound and determined to find a way to make sure that their child doesn't grow up to make their own decisions is not a parent.  That is a controlling, close-minded excuse for a parent.  

I hope your kids don't grow up to be g*y because God forbid you should hate your own child for not being what you want them to be.

Answer 10

There is nothing that you can do to prevent this.  It is a fact of nature.  g*y kids are still our kids and should be loved for themselves.

Answer 11

you should accept your child the way they are

Answer 12

You are a sorry excuse for a parent. No matter what your child's sexual preference is you should love and support them no matter what. You need to mentally mature and find acceptance within yourself.

Answer 13

why...thats your child. it shouldnt matter if your kid came out with 4 legs and 1 eye, you should love them unconditionally. you just shouldnt have kids.

Answer 14

It's easy--don't have kids, then you don't have to worry about it.

It'll kill you if you have a g*y kid? I guess you're lucky I'm not your kid then...

Answer 15

you cant stop it, its natural

and if you cant love your kid for who he/she is, then dont have one. think about what could come out before you put it in...if you catch my drift...

Answer 16

you can't...

stop being so horribly judgmental

Answer 17

Would be one less bigot for the world to deal with I guess.

Answer 18

By not having a kid in the first place =]

Answer 19

Y should u be bothered....u should love ur child for who they are and what they choose to be not for ur preferences...u should just accept what choices ur child will make and if it kills u then ur child will prob be better off without u been judgemental and pushing hate towards him/her and then he/she will be able to live happy known they dont live up to ur expectations

Answer 20

omg thats ur kid ur talking about u wouldnt love ur kid if he/she was g*y......i dont think ur a cut out to be a parent

Answer 21

Have a good relationship with them. I've met a lot of people who are g*y and most have horrible relationships with the same-s*x parent which makes them want love from that gender.

However, there will be those who tell you it is a chemical imbalance in the brain (which I don't agree with) but if they believe that, then there's nothing you can do really.

Answer 22

i dont think it should necesarily 'kill you'

You should love and cherish your children no matter what the sexual orientation.

But I will say, if you show them that g*y is wrong, and they are g*y, chances are there going to hate you.

Answer 23

I don't know that you can prevent it.  My kids both think kissing the same s*x person is gross, and we've talked about how homosexuality is a sin.   We're all sinners, and God doesn't see one sin as worse than any other.  1 Corinthians 6:9 lumps adulterers, idolators, thieves, drunkards & homosexuals together.  I'm not saying that BEING g*y is a sin, but ACTING upon it is.  If one of your kids is g*y, love on them and pray for them.  If God loves us all, you can, too.

Answer 24

why does their sexual preference bother you?  You are suppose to love your children unconditionally

Answer 25

there is nothing you can do about it. its something they are born with. i used to fear my son would be g*y. i was a single mom raising a boy. what did i know as to how to raise this boy into a man? i also worried because (i swear this is true lol) his initials are F.A.G. tell me that aint scary lol. anyway, i decided instead of raising my child to become a man, id raise my son to become a good human being. it took alot of stress off me. besides my sister is g*y, very sucessful. she and her partner have been together 25 years and we love diana as if she were a family member. which she is a family member now. both my sis and her partner are financually sucessful. they make together over 250,000 a year. i bring this up because alot of people stereo type g**s as losers with no ambition. g**s dont recuit people to become g*y either, another stereo type.

Answer 26

Then don't have kids. Btw- being homophobic is a defense mechanism for someone that is unsure of their own sexuality. So take a good look at yourself lol. People that are secure with their sexuality don't have problems with "g*y" people.

Answer 27

if you feel so strongly you shouldn't have children. you wouldn't make a good parent if you were trying to make sure they didn't turn out g*y the whole time. if it was g*y then the poor kid would have trouble relating to you and you wouldn't have a good relationship and if it was straight you would probably turn it homophobic like your self. The world doesn't need more homophobic people in it.

Answer 28

I think even if your child was g*y he/she wouldn't even tell you cause of your homophobic acts.  So don't be worry, make sure he/she knows you don't wont him/her of he/she is g*y.