How can I make things move along?

Question

Okay, this guy who works at the Starbucks I frequent has been flirting with me and I've been flirting back. We chat whenever I go there and it seems we both are interested in each other. This is not me being biased because I brought a friend along one day and she noted he seemed into me. Anyways, it seems like nothing is progressing. I mean we really don't know that much about each other and it seems too soon to ask him out because it hasn't gone anywhere. I know he's in school so he's part-time right now and I don't know when he works or if it's going to be so busy we can't even talk so I can't figure out a good plan of when to go. What do I do because I really would like to get to know him better but it's all so frustrating?!!

Answer 1

You may not want to ask him to dinner right away, but I don't know how you're going to get to know him better if you don't try and get some one-on-one time.  Next time you go in for a coffee and it's not packed, ask him when he's getting off his shift, and whether he'd like company assuming it's convenient for you.  Or just slip him your number with your payment.

Answer 2

Give him your phone number, that way, it's up to him.  You're not putting yourself out there too much but still sending the message that you would like to see him more.  Maybe he wanted to ask for it but didn't know how.  He will probably appreciate the hint.

Answer 3

I like Daisy's answer, next time you see him just ask him if he'd like your phone number. If he says yes, give it to him and tell him you'd like to hear from him. That should work!