How can I make this better? I really need your help! =( PLEASE!!?

Question

Last night, my friend got really mad at me. He's one of my best friends and he means the world to me. I was really depressed and he started asking me all the deep, emotional questions that I didn't know how to answer, so I said "I just don't know..." and he got MAD. He started saying I'm not a real friend and I don't trust him. Is it really all that bad if there are some things I just DON'T KNOW(like WHY I feel a certain way or why I do certain things) and because there are some things I'm just not willing to tell him yet(Like the fact that I like him...he knows I like someone, but I won't tell him that it's him..stupid I know but whatever). How can I fix this? Is it my fault? PLEAASE HELP ME!!

Answer 1

Just tell him that you apoligize about last night, just tell him you were just really depressed. And when the time is right, you can tell him you like him whenever you want. And I don't tell my best friend EVERYTHING, like some things you just want to keep to yourself. Tell him that. Good luck! [:

Answer 2

sounds like he needs that validation from u ...to say that "u like him"  its up to u to decide wen to say things ....u should never be forced.if u trust someone u will confide in them easily.

Answer 3

just tell him that what u think about certain things is ur businesss....tell him tht if he doesnt respect that then u wont be his friend....he needs to respect ur privicy

Answer 4

Just call him up and tell him that you truly do thing he's a good friend, and when he was there trying to make you feel better, you just weren't in the mood to talk. I wouldn't say it was your fault per se, but if your friend was bothered by it, it might be best to apologize and explain to him that at the time you just needed to be alone.

Answer 5

he should not get mad at you. Let him make the first step

Answer 6

Just talk to him tell him you were telling the truth that you really didn't know. He was over reacting and maybe today he has cooled down enough to think clearly. It is not your fault because no one is at fault he was just having male pms and tell him your feelings about him and it will be akward but maybe he might feel the same. Good luck! =)

Answer 7

tell him what you are feeling and whats on your mind and maybe that's what he wants to hear. but i also think that u should tell him that you like him even though it would probably weird him out to know that u like him but if he understands then its ok for u to say wat u need to. all im saying is that u shouldnt hold back wat your feeling so do wat u think and feel is right. ;D good lukk

Answer 8

just tell him why you don't want to talk.

tell him you don't want to talk because you would rather

be with him than talk about who you like.

say"i like you"

just do it

it will make you feel better

Answer 9

sweety. have you ever considered he's mad cos he thinks you dont TRUST him enough to tell him who you like. MAYBE he's angry cos he likes YOU and you didnt say you liked him (even tho you do.) Have you told anyone you like him? he may be pissed off cos you didnt tell him you like him. and he KNEW you liked him. talk to him about it. its the only way you will sort this out. if you really really love him tell him. but if he's someone you think you can live without being a boyfriend then dont tell him babe. Why risk a good friendship? but seriously talk to him. its the only way you'll get anywhere. GO FOR IT! and good lucks babes xxxxxx

Answer 10

Your friend, should be a real friend, by honoring your choices of things which you don't want to tell.   That's what a real friend does.

If your friend got mad at you for answering - then he probably got mad because he did not get to hear what he was wanting to hear from you ... it was probably all about him - more than it was about you.   He wanted answers for himself --- (not really to help you).

Re-evaluate your friendship.   In order to have a friend, a person must first "be-a-friend".

Sweetly tell him that there are some things which you don't want to talk about yet .. that you are not trying to make anyone mad .. but you know that he (as-your-good-friend) will understand, and respect, your decision.

If he does not understand, or gets mad -- he may not be the friend you think he is.

After you tell him this, just let it go.   See what happens with him then - but respect yourself enough not to tell anything you don't want to tell (it's your choice - and he should honor it).