How can I motivate my daugther who is in preparatory to go to school if she had an issue with her teacher?

Question

Her teacher scolded her. Everytime she commit mistakes the teacher would scold her again. It seems that the teacher is a perpecftionist.

Answer 1

Talk with the teacher and tell her what your daughter is telling you and if that fails go higher up in the system - go to the principal and talk with her and see about getting your daughter in a different class. My girls love to go to school and even play school at home with their youngest sister (who is too young yet). But be open and not hostile. There may be more going on than you know in the classroom and you will need to work together with the teacher to make this a good thing for your child.

Answer 2

What, EXACTLY, happened?  What did the teacher say about it?

Seems everyone is quick to blame the teacher on this one.  Not saying the teacher is innocent, but there's no information there in regards to what happened or what you mean by scolding.

More information will enable us to give better advice.  Let us know what you saw, what the daughter says happened, and what the teacher says about it.  

Any other behavior out of the ordinary from your daughter, the school, the teacher, or other students might help as well.

Matt

Answer 3

you should get her transferred out of that class

Answer 4

go talk to her teacher, bring her along. My parents had to do that a few times with me so that I could get along with the teachers- I have ADHD, so I was always bouncing off the walls in class, so I got punished a lot because teachers didn't understand that I couldn't help myself. If that doesn't work, talk to the administration about the teacher. If you are paying for your daughter to go to a prep school, they WILL want to keep you paying for it, even it that means strong arming the teacher into appologizing to your daughter. My dad is the administrator of a small private school, and he frequently will meet with parents for frivilous reasons so that he can keep their kids in the school, and happy.

Answer 5

yelling a student, causes trama. see if that teacher can be excused from that school, with a more sensible one.

Answer 6

Bad teaching methods and teachers will have a permanent

and negative affect on your child for the rest of their academic career.  Your child will learn at their own pace regardless of how much you yell at them.

You owe your child the the best which means a comfortable learning environment .  If your child is not comfortable with her current learning experience they will not learn a thing because they be  too worried about the next scolding instead of the lesson at hand.   Your child will start  to blame themselves for being a bad person.  Do whatever it takes to make your child's childhood a happy, fulfilling, and learning experience. You only get one chance with that child, don't waste it. There is no such thing as a bad child only bad role models.

Answer 7

i had a teacher that i didn't like in primary school, and the only thing that helped me was friends that were in my class and going through the same thing as i did.  just make sure that your child gets a good teacher next year to make up for lost time!  because in my experience, my next teacher got me to love school again.

Answer 8

tell your daughter that that's life and that's how people are gonna be in the real world

Answer 9

talk to the principal as well as the teacher about it