How can I move on from my baby daddy, we have 2 kids ?

Question

We've been together off & on for 11 years, he wanted to marry me at the beginning of our relationship and I didn't. I will admit he asked constantly for years and I always said no and after I had my second baby I decided I want to get married,. Now he acts like he doesn't want to get married. We have two kids one almost 9 and 22 months. What should I do? We're really not in a relationship right now because I want more. I want to move on, but I know he loves me.

Answer 1

That's hard when kids are involved. You must think of your kids - their needs and wants. If their father is not will to do this for his kids, then is he the kind of man you want? Talk with him and get it straight. What does he want? Will he help raise the kids if he is not living at home? Good luck