How can I not be sad when...?

Question

I tried out for volleyball a couple days ago. I thought I did pretty good but a lot of the girls were really, really good. Anyways, I want to prepare myself for if I don't make it, because there once was a time where I tried out for a play and my friend made it and I didn't and I got really upset. I find out at school so I don't really want to be crying at school. So...what are some things that I can say to myself that will make me feel better if I don't make it. If I make it I'll happily add details tomorrow :)

Answer 1

I remember at school at gim clas i arrive to like the long broad jump.I whos not so good atlet,something in midle.So i start to practis this in the yard although not whos mein or somebodys habit to practis for gim.At a result i become in that year the 2 in that branch.More important is the fact what come of this: the rest of my colegs don't realize nothing,me in trade make a style of my by consciously trying.They just go further whitout a real experience.

Answer 2

First of all, good luck!

Second of all, if you do not make the team, that just means that you have to practice your game harder and try out again the next season.  Don't be upset, but rather, be confident that you could play even better at the next tryout and be 100% committed to improving your game so that you will make it on the team.

The key thing is that you will never be a loser if you never give up.

Answer 3

well....i always stay confideted about volleyball........but in your Case i would be OK.......to not feel sad congratulate the people who made the team and always keep a smile on your face.......i was called smiley on my team...i also was the one who always sat out so...just feel confident about what you did.....say i tried my best before you look at the sheet!!!!

Answer 4

Did you try our best?

Thats all that matters. You can always get better and try again the next year. The same thing happened to me!

Answer 5

jus think that some of the girls that were trying out with you were really good...just think of it as that you were good, just not the best!

Answer 6

As long as you gave it your best shot you should not feel bad if you don't make it. You can always try again.

I will have my fingers crossed Good Luck hope you make it.

Answer 7

well just know that you can't always be chosen for everything. if you don't make it it's not cuz you're no good at it....it's cuz you're good, but you should practice a little more. don't be bummed out, cuz there's always next year and you have all this time be your best!

Answer 8

since you are prepared to fail, get used to it. Maybe, just maybe you should be thinking positive, instead of setting yourself up as a loser

Answer 9

Well you know what don't say your gonna make, I tried out for a volleyball team and thought I didn't make it but guess what I DID!!!! Your saying you might make it... well saying I WILL MAKE IT, would be better it's called faith in yourself and I wasn't saying you weren't having faith in you. If you don't  you always have next year or a different volleyball team. Good luck!! Hope you make the team.   :)

Answer 10

best of luck to u hun. just do ur best and try to have fun any way

Answer 11

Just focus. Don't be down if they don't accept you right now. Try out again next year. You can learn and improve what you didn't have this year or were weak at it. You'll make it. If you have the confidence and enthustastic, then you'll make it. Give it all your best. Don't feel down. Don't ever feel down about yourself. Get your head in the game. Good Luck!

Answer 12

just relax. if you get nervous thats when you mess up on serves etc. just chill babe. you'll b ok

           good luck!!!!!!1 ;)

Answer 13

You need a positive attitude. You'll make it don't worry!

The important thing is...you actually went out there and tried out. That, in itself takes guts.

-and if not there's is always next year or you can try another sport!

Answer 14

As long as you did your best, even if you don't make it, you have nothing to feel bad about!!! ( I hope you make it though!!!)