How can I not be such a perfectionist?

Question

I want to be a little less hard on myself. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

That is a good question.  I would like to quit beating myself up for stupid things as well.  Unfortunately I haven't found a solution.  You can tell yourself certain things but in the end saying is easier than doing.

Answer 2

Ask yourself, what is the payoff ?  and what is the cost?  Be honest with yourself. Write it down, when you put it on paper, it makes it more real to look at it.

Answer 3

how can you be a perfect when such a thing doesnt exist?

even Barbie has her flaws.

Answer 4

keep reminding yourself that no one is perfect, not even close.  not your church leader, not the president, not your boss, your parents, no one.  everyone makes mistakes, whether it's on the job, in school, in a relationship, or picking out a bad outfit.  no matter how hard you try, you won't be perfect, and that's OK!  nobody likes a know-it-all, and some people find people who set unrealistic expectations hard to like too.  in the end, you'll be better off just doing the best you can, but not being so hard on yourself if it's not "perfect".  good luck.