How can I overcome my loneliness?

Question

Just turned 23 and haven't really had a 'real' boyfriend... many kisses, a few week long holiday romances and not much else.

How can I improve this? Should I be doing other things in pursuit of a long term boyfriend?

Answer 1

When you are ready and the time is right the person or boyfriend that you are looking for will appear.

Don't try too hard and force the issue. Decide on the type of person you want, what characteristics and personality traits you would like him to have and to a degree what he will look like. Focus on this several times a day with real emotion and passion. Get to a place where you can feel the joy, the laughter, the fun that you will have with the person and feel as though it is happening right now.

Sooner or later depending on how much effort you put into this you will find that your thoughts have brought about the reality.

Hope this helps.

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Answer 2

make your own corny jokes...and laugh until you drop...

learn to find happiness from every thing around you..Trust the voice within

Answer 3

"Ohhh, I must have a boyfriend!"

Stop being a pathetic, spoiled brat.

The ironic thing is that when you get married, you'll whine about not being free.

You are in for a long miserable life if you let your immature feelings run your life.

Answer 4

How about asking them to go out with you?  

Answer 5

Surround yourself with people like you. Don't look for a boyfriend, look for a guy that's willing to be your friend, and if he's wanting to be more, then there you go. If not, then you have a friend.  

Answer 6

try to improve ur self, do something that u have and like and try to be professional in it to fill ur time like art, music, etc. i don't say that u would not feel the loneliness at all but it would be better, and the true guy who really likes u will come for u eventually for ur self but u have to wait a little bit ;)