How can I possibly talk to this girl at Church?

Question

I go to Mass in the evening during the week and I have seen this girl who has been coming for the past couple of weeks with what I would suspect is her mother.

She comes about 10 or so minutes before Mass starts and sits with her mum and another family of 5 which I think she is related to. Talking before Mass is not really an option anyway, very awkward time to talk. I would like to talk to her after Mass but when she exists the Church she is with those people and they head to the car, how can I possibly talk to her?

Do I actually go up to her while she is walking with those people or at least with her mum and talk to her? or is there another way?

Answer 1

Open your mouth and start talking.  Ask her about her week; ask her about her plans for the coming week.  Ask her about the music she likes; ask her about her favorite TV show or movie.  Learn about HER, and she will learn about YOU in the process.

Answer 2

Yes approach her while she is comfortable with her family and friends. It would show a lot of courage on your part and probably give her the idea you may be some one very special she would like to know. Take it from me, I am a girl and I would have been happy to have an admirer approach me while my family was their. Also her mother would probably like you more just for approaching her while they were together, it shows respect and maturity.

Pray the Rosary and receive the Sacraments for the glory to God in the Highest!  

Answer 3

From the way you describe the situation, you have no choice but to approach her while she is walking out with who you said you believed was her family. Unless you approach them to welcome them to your church during the pre service time they are there.  The only other way I see, is to hope you see her in a different social setting.

Answer 4

Just approach her and don't hesitate. You'll never know what will happen.

Answer 5

Sit behind or in front of her. Be yourself

Answer 6

Wait for her to go th the bathroom. When she exits show her your erect p***s.

Answer 7

Walk up to her and say "God bless you, wanna have my child?" ..... Nah, just keep your cool and approach her nicely, try to sit beside her families and friends.

Answer 8

You go to church to pick up girls? Is that allowed?

Answer 9

Put the power of prayer to the test , and see what happens.

Answer 10

You should leave her to worship in peace. Maybe she doesn't want you chatting her up?