How can I prove he shouldn't go into the Navy?

Question

My friend is hoping to go into the navy. He is going to go into the naval academy and become an officer. I disagree with him and believe he shouldn't go into the navy. How can I prove and convince of this? Thanks.

Answer 1

I doubt you'll change his mind, It's what he wants instead of pushing your feelings on him. Be supportive of his choice.

Answer 2

It is not up to you. I suggest you accept that, and instead of fighting it trt to be a good friend and support your friend's dreams. I understand you may be worried for him, but ultimately he will do what his heart tells him. It is his decision and his life. Just be there for him.

Answer 3

If you just don't want him to because you'll miss him if he has to travel, then just tell him that.  But if you dislike the military or the Navy specifically, it's his life, not yours, so not really your business.  The Navy is a good living.

Answer 4

Why? USNA is a great institution and has developed world-class leaders for decades. Being a military officer is one of the most respected and rewarding careers a person could have.

-Army Pilot

Answer 5

Try:

1. "Really, staying in this loser town and flipping burgers is much more honorable than serving your country".

2. "Why would you want to become a naval Officer, get a free college education, and see the world, when you can stay here and get f'd up with me every night?"

3.  "Really, this isn't about what YOU want, it's about what I want!!!"

Answer 6

Sounds like you care more about yourself and getting your way then you do your friend.

If you are a true friend you will support him in what he wants to do with his life, whether you agree or not. (he's not doing anything illegal)

Get over yourself and be a true friend

Answer 7

is his life he needs to be able to do what he wants to

Answer 8

Its not your choice. He can do whatever he feels he wants to do so just stay out of it. Thats rude and disrespectful.He wants to help his country,he can.

Answer 9

He needs to read the requirements for the Academy..he most likely wont qualify.

http://www.usna.edu/Admissions/

http://www.usna.edu/Admissions/stactive....

Answer 10

I'm going in and if i could have went to the academy i would have.  why are you being selfish?  support that decision.  navy officers are some of the most respected people in the country, he will get a first class education and a degree from there will set him for life.

Answer 11

why dont you want him to go? If he really wants to go he should. If your afraid of him getting hurt talk to him. My family has a military history and none have died in battle. One is and ex navy and belong to the SWAT and is doing fine, he even fell out of the helicopter(why he was kicked out)

Answer 12

i dont know im just answering so i can get points

  

Answer 13

Don't. you won't convince him ,that's what he wants to do. If you want to be there for them, support them and get over yourself.

Answer 14

If you don't know why he shouldn't go into the Navy and you can't give him a clear reason why, maybe you don't know what you are talking about.  

Answer 15

Let him live his own life.

Answer 16

show him a video of how dangerous it is being in the navy

Answer 17

If your a real friend, you should let him go and just pray everyday to make him feel happy.

if he wants to go to the navy, let him.

I know he has to go to war and everything, but, just hope like he does.

Its all abt the faith.

Answer 18

Why do you need to 'prove' he shouldn't?

It's his decision, not yours. Are YOU planning to let everyone else dictate to you what you are allowed to do with YOUR life?

Answer 19

you could just hope that he gets a section eight discharge - if he is listening to your advice, he likely will....

Answer 20

Tell him Massachusetts just legalized g*y marriage and if he is in the Navy you two will never get married unless he comes out.

Answer 21

you dont, let him live his own life, if he wants to do this with his life then let it be and learn to support him  

Answer 22

Present your disagreements to him.

Answer 23

It's his life, let him live it.

Answer 24

What is your 'proof'?

What is your argument that he should not have a career?

Answer 25

This is an easy one, all you have to do is explain to him that the worst thing to be in life is a discharged seaman.  

Answer 26

If you're a real friend, you'd support him not convince him not to join. If it was me I would hate it if you'd try to convince me not to.The Navy is a wonderful branch. Why don't you want him joining the Navy? You have to remember..just because you wouldn't want to join, doesn't mean your friend feels the same way. If you're worried about him dying, he probably won't

Answer 27

Take him to a military cemetery. You can find a lot of reasons there.

Answer 28

Just explain to him, unless he likes buttsechs, he should stay on shore. have him join the Air Farce.

Answer 29

If it's his dream, why would you want to discourage him.  It sounds like he has a plan for his future.  Let him make his decision based on what he wants for his life.

Answer 30

why should u interfere with his decision... you should agree with him what he does,hes doing something positive with his life,, so should you

Answer 31

What is wrong joining the Navy?

He is doing your country good - so stop thinking about yourself and quit being selfish... Sorry least to say, but this world needs brave men and women out there and fighting for rights. I have much respect for your friend joining and thinking about it. All you can do is support him and be his friend - let him know that you're happy what HE wants to do for a living...