How can I prove to my dad that I am a responsible 11 year old, and that I am mature?

Question

I would like to prove to my dad that I am responsible and mature enough to go to the mall by myself with my BFF, who is 13, and that I can handle getting a new puppy. I know some of you think that I am NOT responsible or mature, so could those people please just help me out so I am?

Luv,

Moon Wolf

Answer 1

my mom didnt let me go to the mall by myself until i was 17!!!...you may think you are but your not...you dont even know whats out there and being out with a BFF does not make it better for your parents

the mall is nothing special i know you want privacy and all but its not safe these days

sorry hun, but i dont think they will do it

Answer 2

your no where near old enough to proove your mature.

"luv moon wolf" says it all really...

Answer 3

Sounds like you dad really loves you, would you be willing to let your dad take you and your friend to the mall? Doesn't mean he was to walk with you and your friend in the mall but at least he is there. Then if all goes well and your dad see's that your not there to do anything wrong the trust will grow. Do you have a cell phone for emergency's?

My daughter has one she does help out at home to earn the money for her phone..Maybe your dad would be willing to do a pre-paid phone for when you do go places with your friend(s) and that way you can call if there is a problem.

This is what I did with my daughter and now she is a little older and I do trust her as she hasn't given me a reason not to..

As for the PUPPY they are alot of work and take alot of work with potty training (This doesn't happen over night) You need to train them.

Start with a kitten maybe,they are alot easier to litter train..Plus you don't have to take them out for walks a few times a day because puppies/dogs need alot of exercise.

Remember as a parent it is our job to keep you safe from harm as long as we can...I always say my kids are not material things they can never be replaced.

Things will work out..Good Luck

Answer 4

tell him you love him

Answer 5

You should get something thats a smaller responsability than a puppy... like something of value, and show your dad that you can take care of that and are ready for a puppy.. and as for the mall, well i'm not sure how to help you on that one... good luck!

Answer 6

You aren't mature yet and I think nothing you do will help prove it to your father because you are only 11 years old. Just take time being a child. I had to grow up quick and I hated it.  

Answer 7

Im sorry your not old enough.  I wouldnt let you either there are really bad people in this world and your not ready to fend them off.  Your dad is trying to protect you keep you safe he loves you... give him a break maybe when your 13 also you can go to the mall  

Answer 8

Maturity is a term used to indicate that a person responds to the circumstances or environment in an appropriate manner.

Examples:

“Dad, can I go to the mall.”

“No Pat, you cannot today.”

Mature response:

“Ok dad. What can I do that would change your mind in the future?”

Immature response:

“Why do you hate me? You won’t let me have a liiiiiife!” *storm off & slam door*

As for responsibility, if you want a puppy prove you can handle housework. Do the laundry, the dishes, clean the bathroom, whatever you can. Basically do all of your chores (without being asked!!) and then some.