How can I prove to my girlfriend that I do want a child?

Question

Me & my girlfriend have been going out for nearly 5 years & originally neither of us wanted children. However, she changed her mind on that about 2 years ago & has since decided that since I don't want children, that we should break up.

However, since the birth of my little cousin, I've come to grow on the idea of a little one, but she refuses to believe that I actually want a child & am not just saying I want one t keep her around.

How could I prove to her that I really do want to start a family with her?

Answer 1

wow. i would be absolutely honest with her.tell her what you just said. that the birth of your cousin has changed your mind. i can only assume youa re both of resonable age and finaically able to support a child.

good luck. if this was the only factor keeping you apart then im sure she still loves you.heck that would be like a romance movie. talk about best case scenerio.

good luck and i hope the best for you both!

Answer 2

You shouldnt have to prove anything like that to her for her to marry you. Either she loves you enough to spend the rest of her life with you, or she doesnt. And if the two of you arent willing to commit yourselves to each other for the rest of your lives, then you arent ready to bring a child into your lives. I suggest you take this one step at a time.

Answer 3

Buy something baby related and give it to her.  Like a baby onesie or a baby bottle, or whatever you desire to buy.  Also you could just stop wearing condoms.  Tell he what you stated in your second paragraph.  Tell her how you feel.  Good luck.  Babies are great if you are ready for one. If you need any extra ideas... e-mail me and I can give you a long list I'm sure.

Answer 4

offer your family with the lil one to babysit so they can have a night out and you and the lil one can bond if they are close. If not start reading some books on parenting from the library. Get one of those robotic babies to see how good of a parent you might be then who knows she might change her mind and realize so did you.

PSssssssssst Wanna baby sit mine..lol both are older ages 6 and 3 JK start with a youngster they need less attention

Answer 5

buy a crib, set up a nursery, tell her you'll start trying with her right now.  and whats stopping you from popping the question, even if she says no right now it's worth a shot.

Answer 6

You should draw a face on a sack of flour and carry it around the house with you. Pretend its a baby amd when you show how good of a daddy you are to your girlfriend, she might have children with you. But i suggest getting married first. That's just more sane. ♥

Answer 7

Well if u really want her to believe maybe s*x???

Answer 8

Start by asking her to marry you and then set a wedding date.

Answer 9

How about volunteering your time to something with children?  Hospitals, after school programs, orphanages, etc...  If you have a big brothers/sisters group near you, that would be perfect.  It will show her that you are not only interested in children but also responsible enough to care for them.  Good luck with everything!

Answer 10

What is the matter with young people? Do you want your child to start life being illegitimate? there is a not so nice a word for this,and since the beginning of History it has been a sin to be born this way. Why don't you get married before you want a family? Do you want to be a Father instead of a baby daddy?On second thought, you are to immature to be a father. Try waiting a few years and get a good job so you can support a wife and a baby.Also, You will be feeding and supporting this child for the next 18 years.You may want to think more about this.

Answer 11

Commit.