How can I put up with being lonely? ?

Question

I hate being left alone at home. I feel so sad and anxious and I hate it. It feels like I'm just wasting my time here in the house when I could be doing something else. What can I do to cope with being so alone all the time? Eighth grade iss ssooooo hard. I just want to cry.

Answer 1

You should first of all know that you are not the first and only person undergoing such suffering. There are many in this world, who do not have any company and support.

Keep your heart strong. It should not be lose. Heaven is not going to fall. Things will change for better. Nothing is permanent in this world. Have high hopes and aspirations. Be jovial. Utilize your spare time towards good pursuits. Engage your mind in different activities and be alert and busy always. In this way you will forget your worries. Read some interesting and useful books. There are many worthy books. When you read useful, interesting, noble and holy books, it gives you very good company.

After all your above activities, spare few minutes for Prayer. Prayer can move mountains. If you start prayer, all your worries will take a flight.

Answer 2

Even people who are older than eigth grade feel lonely sometimes, so it might be a good idea to learn now that being alone isn't actually a bad thing. Consider taking up a hobby like reading, or drawing, or some other activity you can do on your own. You will probably discover it's not such a bad thing if you have something creative to do. Don't worry, things will be fine :)

Answer 3

Talk to someone close to you.

When you are in the house alone, do something to keep your mind off loneliness. Play some music and sing along to it. And last but not least, if you want to cry, then cry. Let it all out of your system. You will feel better.  

Answer 4

Think about people whom you are most comfortable with. Start with your siblings and cousins. Meet your cousin's friends...then you can start to network and branch outwards. Now I WANT to be alone cos I'm tired of socializing and all this superficial people....heck...I'd love just 1 or 2 close friends in the house and I'd be happy. Good luck, and don't take highschool so seriously....I meant the pressure part.....it really won't matter down the line..........