How can I "be myself" if I have no clue who that is?

Question

How do I figure that out?

Answer 1

Well nowadays, it is hard for people to really be themselves because they really try to fit in an they pretend to be someone else.

What i think u should do is do what U want do, act how U want act, dress how U want to dress, if u want to speak your mind, DO IT. Do what u like and step-by-step you'll  find yourself. Be be aware that you MIGHT have to make so sacrifices and MIGHT hurt some feelings.

Answer 2

Find yourself, you must.  Go deep within your mind, discover what lies there!

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel!  As I grow older, I seem to be getting more comfortable with myself.  I have more opinions about EVERYTHING!  I think the key is to think before you act, and get involved with numerous things to find out your interests. Wisdom and knowledge really do come with age and experience.

Answer 4

start with what you are intersted in, and what you really dont care about. what music do you like? do you like to sing, paint, exercise?

Answer 5

You are what your head and heart can maintain. If you don't know your own heart or your own mind, no one else does.

Answer 6

you just have to live. i mean really live. you must experience every moment in a non robotic way and then react naturally. don't worry about what other people think because the truth is that we're all just here on earth without even KNOWING why and besides you are, to other people, whatever you say you are (as long as your not obviously being phony). try it out, go out like, say, a goth one day and a nerd the next. you'll be able to see that you are what you "say" you are by the difference in the looks/reactions/treatment you receive. you may want to take classes in psychology and philosophy when/if you can. they can teach you all about these sorts of things. good luck on life's journey : )