So, as the title suggests, I'm a g*y-leaning female bisexual. As such, I have to deal with a lot of imagery, comments, and portrayals that paint my sexuality as a male fetish, rather than something autonomous in its own right. This is extremely irritating to me, I think because I feel that women have been given so little space to authentically express their desires, and female/female space is one place where that shouldn't be an issue. I'm hoping some of you understand what I mean.
Of course, I don't have a problem at all with men being attracted to the idea of two women together, or mff threesomes, or anything of the sort-- but I -hate- the idea of a man, say, witnessing me and a girl together, and men tend to get defensive when I tell them this. I don't want to be all "oh, you're a horrible person for being sexually attracted to this," but I do want to explain why it can be so annoying if they're not respectful. Any ideas?
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