How can I show that I'm g*y without really saying anything?

Question

I'm a closet g*y Asian guy that has trouble finding relationships. I've never had a boyfriend before. I'm very shy and reserved as most people tell me. I get very nervous when I'm talking to someone I like. I don't think I'm attractive but maybe I'm making things too hard because I don't let on that I'm g*y because I'm still in the closet. I act straight and everyone I haven't told thinks I'm straight.

I envy my friends because they have someone they love and I'm still lonely.

How can I show that I'm g*y without really saying anything?

Answer 1

You might be amazed that the ones who you think, think that you are straight really already know. Beauty does not show in the mirror but lies inside who you are. You will most likely never know if someone else is g*y or interested in you if you don't ask. I'm a straight man who has had men  ask me out. Most think I should hit the person, I say why at least someone finds me attractive. Just wish women were as open as most men. Think of it this way, the person your talking to is probably just as nervous as you.

Answer 2

you can't until you come outta the closet or you can show by body language...

Answer 3

join your schools g*y Straight Alliance

Answer 4

you are not the only person that has or is going through this. I did.

most of the people here are right! it is hard for other people to see you as a g*y guy if you are still hiding in the closet. that was the first lessen I had to learn.

next you need to put your self out there for other g*y guys to see, like yahoo personals, or other dating site. a myspace page will help too. (I have one and that is how I met my partner. we have been together for almost 14 months now).

take things one step at a time, if you do not you could get into some problems. and please practice safe s*x.

Answer 5

Thats so hard.........I look and act straight but everyone knows Im g*y, cuz I told my friends, even some point I had to tell some co-workers I was. Its no big deal; because I was open everyone knew I actually got approached by closet g*y guys; people I didnt even know about. Go figure.......

Answer 6

suggest you go to a club, and have it be a g*y club, you'll definitely get the hint out then.

Answer 7

Eye contact for a period of time does WONDERS. =)  I know this from experience! ^_^

Answer 8

well if you don't wanna say anything.. then act g*y

be feminine.. be girly

think about the things you say or how you talk..

Answer 9

Not knowing you personally, it's more difficult to say...however...you CAN do a LOT of flirting just with your eyes...the look, the glance, the wink...the length of the 'look', etc...  And, don't forget to 'smile' when you've gotten someones attention...that should cinch it...

Answer 10

well, you could get into g*y pride stuff, like if you havea myspace or facebook join some g*y supporter groups or add myspace.com/isupport

maybe put a g*y pride flag on ur profile, wear g*y pride bracelets, maybe a rainbow belt or something

and DO NOT say that girls are hot

good luck!

Answer 11

i used to be closeted person and I'm also Asian. you don't need to say anything but just with the action you can come out. go to g*y club and have g*y friends to build up your self confidence first. i guess the answer will be bright ... good luck dear.

Answer 12

Jump out of the closet and say "SUPRISE!"

LOL

Answer 13

If you live in a large city, then there should be several g*y organizations you could check out.  For example, if there is a university near, it may have a g*y student association.  There are plenty of g*y churches to chose from - nearly every denomination has a g*y organization, including the Roman Catholic Dignity group.  There are sports groups (e.g., g*y bowling associations, g*y volleyball, g*y softball, etc.).  There are g*y political organizations for both democrats and republicans.  Since you are Asian, there are even groups for g*y Asians, such as Asians and Friends + others.  The larger the city, the more options you will have.

Best of luck to you!

Answer 14

Tom M looks like that guy from Brokeback Mountain.

Also, if ur kinda emo, or gothy, wear one of those cool pyramid bracelets that are white and have like the rainbow pyramid things. there cool, they have belts too. also u could try some kind of bracelet always works if it is rainbowwy, just embrace a rainbow accesory, i mean thats the only way i can think of.