How can I stop being a boring and dry person to talk to?

Question

I have a set of friends who are extremely huge chatterboxes and getting amused about everything and anything is too usual for them. They enjoy this but I don’t, so they fully pay no attention to me in our group if I have nothing to contribute. It has always been like this these days so I happen to get used to this and I lose confidence in myself because I never have an opinion and nothing to say.

If have a chat to practically anyone, it often gets quiet and I judge this is because I’m boring and dry. How do I become interesting and stop making people bored stiff?

Answer 1

i had a friend in my group of friends just like you we were all having a laugh where she just sat in the corner . but you know what we wouldnt have had her any other way she was our friend for a reason. if your friends found you boring etc they wouldnt include you there must be something about you that they like. try talking to the friend who you feel closest to in the group and explain your worries . have more confidence in who you are. hope that helps a little bit hun

Answer 2

I don't really know how to become more chatty but sometimes I find myself in the same situation as you and it's really horrible isn't it?

Maybe be joking and funny around people because most people like a good laugh.

But it's your personality so you can't really change it much