How can I stop being so sarcastic?

Question

Quite frankly, Im the only one who thinks its cute. Not only that, but it happened on accident. I used to be really nice and caring but I became rude, grouchy, grumpy, and I actually wanted to change my personalitie (im only 13, i make mistakes), so I tried being sarcastic. And it stuck with me. So how can I be nicer, and not sarcastic? I also want to be confident while I do this. I dont want to be intimidated when somebody is pushy, and I dont want to act like I have to impress everyone. I want to walk with my head high, but not have such a bad attitude.

Answer 1

Prayer changes things.

Answer 2

Truthfully the best advice I can give you is to "THINK BEFORE YOU TALK".  I have this problem in other areas.  I am extremely blunt and many times I have hurt other peoples feelings unintentionally.

So I made the decision to think before I talk.  It took a while, and I did make mistakes.  But after a while it became second nature.  Practice makes perfect.It is like any bad habit, you just have to keep being AWARE of it, and you will succeed.

Answer 3

You already said that you wanted to change once, and now you can do it again to reverse the process.  I remember when I was about 9 I had picked up swearing like a trucker in the school yard.  I made a conscious effort and over time I controlled how much profanity slipped through.  You can be confident in the fact that you like who you are and that no matter how much trouble people give you its only temporary.  Sarcasm is a form of humor, twist it a little bit and pray for the guy before me.