How can I stop being so violent and crazy?

Question

i'm starting my junior year in a few days and i'm worried to death cuz last year i had a lot of problems. i had academic problems most importantly but i had anger problems. at times, my mom would not give me lunch money and breakfast cuz we get into a big verbal fight. so while i'm at school, i get pissed and i steal money from people or sometimes confront someone and punch them for money. i was desperate at times. and at times, when i come back from gym class and check my locker room, and i find out my money disappeared, instead of contacting the principal about the loss of my money, i go around the locker room to everyone asking if they stole my money, saying not to lie to me, or i will blow their heads off. of course somethings wrong with me, how do i CHANGE myself

Answer 1

Why do you ask?You had problems and transferred your anger to someone else,in the form of violence,stealing,and irrational confrontation,instead of dealing with your problem,as you own it.You certainly are quick to blame others but not yourself.The big problem is you,and your actions in a crisis,Take responsibility for yourself,and the rest will follow.

Answer 2

I'm not an emotional person so it's hard for me to understand you.  Personally I keep a very impersonal distance from people and events and watch from afar.  If anything bothers me I simply do what I can to correct it without getting emotional.

Answer 3

Just don't let what others do get to you. And if that doesn't work find enter peace through meditating (I'm not kidding mediation helps)