How can I stop being such a "Goody good"?

Question

***Sorry if I already posted this...it said that I didn't...so If you've seen this already then sorry***

Okay well a lot of people think I'm a goody good....and I don't...I mean I do stuff like partying, drinking, and streaking lol....and other c**p like that...Am I a goodie good?

And what can me and my friend do [[she is here...and also wants to know]] to not be goody goods...like a list?

Thanks!

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Answer 1

Think about what you're doing, and why.  Partying, drinking, streaking, and "other c**p like that" - and it sounds as if the main reason you do these things is to acquire a certain image (i.e. "not goody-good").  What is payoff if you succeed?  Will someone think you're "cool" ?  They might, but other people won't, and will it matter in a year, or five years, which people thought you were cool in high school?  And what will that "not-goody-good" image cost?  

On the other hand, suppose you go on being what a few people consider a goody-good?  What would that cost?  And considering that staying out of trouble can have a huge pay-off (yes I mean money in the form of college scholarships and/or good job recommendations), which of these two paths do you think makes the most sense?  

Answer 2

Be who you are... are you trying to fit in with another group of friends or are you just wanting to be bad? Either way, just do what comes naturally to you and you'll be much happier in the long run. Accept yourselves for who you are. If you were not truly a goody good, then you wouldnt be asking this question so live it and learn to love it and others will too.

Answer 3

I know I have the same

problem except It's

I'm TOO Nice

If they only knew.

LOL

Answer 4

Your SMART not a "goody-good" stick to your values and ignore what other people think

Answer 5

Whats wrong with being a goody two shoes? Do you seriously know how bad out generation of adolescents are these days? THEY'RE HORRIBLE! Too many teeange pregnancies, too much drinking, partying, smoking, s*x, and trying to look like a s**t.

Being a good two shoes is a good thing.  

Answer 6

get high?party more?talk about the S**t you do at school

Answer 7

if you want to not be a good goody then dont tell people your a virgin and you dont do inappropriate things.

Thats your problem DUH!!!

1. your a virgin.

2. You dont do inappropriate things

how are you supposed to be bad if you dont do anything that is??

Answer 8

Well you could party more. But You shouldn't have to drink to be bad. Getting drunk makes you look stupid. Just maybe party more don't do anything stupid though like drugs.

Answer 9

First of all, don't care so much about what other people think about you.  Never change who you truly are just to make other people happy.

Second of all, you are too young to be doing the things you claim you do.  Being a goody-goody is not a bad thing.  I'd rather be considered a goody-goody than a s**t or a w***e.  If you keep doing all those inappropriate things, it won't be long before you get a reputation that you really don't want to have.

*I didn't say you were a s**t.  I said there were worst things to be called than a goody-goody.  About your age, this is posted in the adolescent section and you are clearly a young girl.  That's obvious.  Drinking is only "semi bad"?  Try ILLEGAL if you are under the age of 21 (which you obviously are).  Most girls who start out partying and doing things that "aren't that bad" usually end up getting into more trouble later on down the road.  If your aspirations in life is to be known as a "bad girl", then keep it up.  You'll get there.  You'll also regret it someday.  In a few years, you'll understand what I mean.

Answer 10

Nothing be your self you will be happy you did when your older. It doesn't matter what people think or say about you as long as you know who and what you are.  

Answer 11

Whats wrong with being a " goody good? " Its better then being some drunk crack head living on the streets! :D