How can I stop caring for my dad?

Question

My dad has always been the biggest a** in the world, from abuse to betrayal, he hasn't left anything , well he hasn't been sexually abusive, besides that everything else specially humiliation.

It's been over 1 year since I haven't talked to him nor do I intend to , but quite often it's like i have flashback from the past which is very common for everyone but then i break into tears and wish that i could do things differently like instead of being afraid of him i would fight till he gave up. I don't know why I'm writing this but it's like i really wish i could stop caring for him.

Answer 1

just pop a cap in his ***

Answer 2

i know this isnt gonna help much now, but time seriously does help. I used to beat myself up all the time about my real father (abusive in several ways), even though he is probably the worst person i know.  But now im 25 and i havent spoken to him for something like 14 years and i dont feel anything towards him anymore, which is much better than being full of hate.

So if you give it time and just keep the contact severed, you will reach a point of not even caring one way or the other about him.  Youre going to have some times though when its going to suck emotionally and mentally but youll make it through.

Best of luck to you!

~hugs~

Answer 3

I hate to say it, but he will always be your dad regaurdles of all the bs he put you threw. I am not trying to make you feel guilty but if he and your mother didnt get together you wouldnt be here. If you dislike him so much just avoid him..I have herd the best way to get over bad things our parents have put us threw is to forgive. but that dosent mean u have to forget.

Answer 4

Just remember all the negativity he's brought to your life.  While remembering try to build up hate not remorse.  Tell yourself all the bad things he's done.  Yell while saying it,  how he's ****** up and stuff like that.  Then you'll stop caring for him.