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How can I stop getting all the boy's attention?

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I'm a 14 year old girl from London. And even though our school is very multicultural, I am the only Italian looking person in our school. All the boys bother me all the time, like slapping my bum and touching my b***s and stuff. I only like it whe one lad does it cos I really like him. But some of the others do it and it really annoys me. My brother wants to beat someof them up but I don't want him to, how can I stop it?

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Just tell them to F*ck off, i think that will give them the message

or just go to them just leave me alone, coz you will get beaten up by my bro n get him 2 come over or smat

just tell them to stop

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You can stop being so self-absorbed.
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Just tell them to stop. That's rude, disrespectful and piggish. =] But ya. Tell them it's not gonna make you like them when they do that.
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Learn Thai Quon Do.
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Next time one of them touches you inappropriately, knee 'em in the nuts. You've got to stand up for yourself.
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um... idk. tell them to stop?
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well when i hadthis problem i always use to slap them but idont know what the policy of your school is because mine is you cant hit anyone. but i never got in trouble becasue i was always like ok u tell i slapped you across the face and ill tell u sexually assualted me lol and they shut up. my bro also wanted to beat them up.

have ur bro threaten them and see if they stop
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let your brother do what he does. he's just protecting you. thats a good trait to have in a brother.
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tell them too stop...maybe stop dressing the way you do, i know girls that will wear thongs underneath a short-short-short-short-short skirt and then she wonders why we all stare at her!
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tell them to stop. thats sexual harrassment
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if they dont it say in a load clear voice that you dont want them to touch you would they like it if you kept touching them if nothing changes please tell someone as it s wrong its not there s to touch and your brother has every right to defend you
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Talk to your parents and the principal.

The principal's job is to discipline kids.
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tell an authority they are sexually harassing you
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punch them in the face lmaoo. like seroiusly a guy did that to me and i punched him and he stopped.
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Are you dressing in a sexual way? Maybe you shouldn't let your crush touch you either because the other boys will think they can do it too...
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you should file sexual harrassment. no one has the right to do that to youu.
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just tell them to stop. that happens to me 2. i told them to stop and they did. can u answer my question? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
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kick them in the place it hurts most (groan) then keep hitting them and say yea how u like that, because I don't have some respect for me because I've taken it for too long. If that don't work punch the c**p out if them!
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Well you really had to stop it before it got worse, how did you let these guys touch and bother you like that? Cause now since these guys know they can do it, others will start joining in. You should've been straight forward from the beginning, saying a serious "NO" or tell your school admisnistrator or someone in authority at your school...BUT if you like it then that's another thing...by the way the guy that you like is no exception, it's inappropriate in my opinion.
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well firstlt tbh i think you should get over it. if your 14 thats the same as me and i get all the same attention but its not cause they all fancy you, iuts because they all just want s*x.

just tell them your not interested and to go away but with stronger words. gah its not that bad!

i wanna be a glamour model so i lap up the attention, whereas you may be shy. just tell them to bugger off!
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You're obviously letting them get away with it so that's why they continue to do it. Firmly say no and make it very clear that you don't want to be harassed like that, even from the one boy you like-he should be respecting you more than that.
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Let the brother do his thing. He knows best in this matter.
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First of all hang out with your brother more when your at school.And I don't mean suffocate him I mean keep him nearby.The other things you can do are: the guy you don't mind-ask him out once your "off the market" they other guys will leave you alone,tell a ateacher or guidance counselor about it,or if it goes to far one day tell your parents and they could take legal action,just hope it doesn't resort to that.I myself am a 14-yr.-old brother to a 10-yr-old and a 2-yr-old.
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No guy should ever disrespect you like that. Seems like they are treating you like a piece of meat. It seems the boys know it annoys you so that is why they keep doing it. If it continues, I would tlak to a councelor and let them know that you are being violated. I personally would have punched one of the kids in the face. lol
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NO you need to say GET YOUR HANDS OFF ME NOW!!!! if you dont speak up something worse could happen like they could do MORE You are a girl and you need to tell these people to back OFF you and show some respect if you keep on letting them do this then sooner or later they will force you to kiss them then they will force you to have s*x with them and all these other things could happen so lay your guard down now before they start taking advantage of you.
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yell at them and just make sure you keep a distance from the people. also if you want to, it's really important to tell someone like your parents. i think that's abuse or harassment.
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Dress uglier. Most of the 14 year olds I see these days dress like a $2 hooker. That doesn't necessarily mean it's all you either. Boys will be very very very immature at that age. Tell on them. Why not? Sexual harassment isn't looked to kindly on a 14 year old girl. You have the right to go to school and not be harassed. It doesn't help when you dress provocative though.......you're asking for it then, quite literally. If you TRULY don't like it, you will not go around them, and you will make it very obvious to them that it bothers you. If you're not making it obvious, you must like it a little bit.
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You look them straight in the eyes and tell them to keep there hands off of you. If one of them touches you again, let your brother do what he's got to do with these punks. Also, report them to your counselor. Nobody should put there hands on you unless you say it's OK. You're not a piece of meat that anyone can help themselves to and I'm sure you have enough respect for yourself to not let that happen again. If you have to, if this happens again, Turn around and put your fist through his face. Sorry I might be getting carried away but it just really angers me that some guys are so ignorant and disrespectful.
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