How can I stop judging people regarding their looks?

Question

I see people each day. And if I see a person who has a feature about them that I dont like, I think in my head "oh, he`s ugly".

How can I look under that?

I do belive that nobody is "ugly" but cant help it being my first thought when I see something about a person`s looks that I dont like.

I judge myself about my looks too. I say to myself "I`m so d**n ugly"

But I`m trying to change that by saying to myself " I`m beautiful " and seeing my good features. I think I might be working.

Should I do that with others?

Do you do this too?

Answer 1

Your just shallow.Just live with it.It's nothing bad,just your personality.

Answer 2

jus stop doin it. if u see somebody and there is a feature about him you dont like oh well! nobody is perfect. dont judge him...thats not fair. and dont judge urself or compare yourself to other ppl. you are your own person. no 2 are alike. when u look in the mirror, look at what u like most. dont concentrate on the features you dont like. they probably aren't that bad anyway.

Answer 3

what you see of yourself in the mirror is what you see on to others. You cannot judge others on how they look,dress,walk, because that is your outlook. still you  can change that by looking at yourself deeply inside yourself.One more thing why don't you look at your siblings and start to judge them as you judge others. " you can change" I bet you.

Answer 4

go without food or kindness for awhile say 6 months... (some go MUCH of their lives this way) also put REAL patches over your eyes with sunglasses over them.

have a REAL need....

"see" who helps, "see" who's real...

feel it...

you will NEVER judge another person again once you see past the glitter and bows.

Answer 5

have you ever heard don't judge a book by it's cover and see what's inside first before judging it's good your trying to change most people won't so good on you for that you have to be more positive about your life and the people in it and around it  

Answer 6

One way for sure is to do volunteer work with kids--No kid is ugly.

Answer 7

What you think about others is really a projection of what you think about yourself according to Jungian Psychology. The thought about another person is actually your own thoughts about you focused on to others.  

Since you mentioned that you also have thoughts that you are ugly, the thought about another person being ugly is just your own thoughts about you, being aired for you to hear.

Positive thoughts never permanently or successfully overide negative thoughts. Your thoughts about ugliness may actually not be about looks but could be about behaviour. Do you behave sometimes in a ugly way.

Our ugly behaviour is when we are rude, unobliging, sarcastic, dismissive etc. Look first to see how you behave "ugly". When you can see how, change your behaviour and you will find that you no longer see yourself as ugly or see others as ugly.