How can I talk to my ex boyfriend again?

Question

So my ex and i broke up for almost a year now. And the last time i evered talk to him was the day we saw each other at church school. Then 4 months later he found himself a new gf I did too. We never talked ever again. And when i try commenting him on myspace he never replies. And he would always try to avoid looking at me at church. I really want to try being friend with him like we use to and hang out or go to the movies. What can I do??

Answer 1

I know its probably not what you want to hear, but I wouldn't bother trying to be friends with your ex. Its just far too complicated, and it will undoubtedly effect your current relationship. If you are leaving him messages on myspace and he isn't replying then I would just take the hint.

You sound like a nice person, I would concentrate your energy on someone who deserves your friendship.  

Answer 2

seems to me like he is trying his hardest to get over you, or maybe he has and doesnt want to fall for you again. But a suggestion i give to you is, dont contact him for a little while.. a little while being like a couple weeks. Then try again, if he still doesnt reply, go up to him in church chase after him if you must and get him to talk to you, get him to tell you why he wont reply anymore and that you just want to be FRIENDS and nothing more

Answer 3

Move on. He obviously have!

Answer 4

This is a tough question to answer. All men deal with break-ups in very different ways, and if he already has a new girlfriend you must be careful not to look as though you are trying to steal him back. If his girlfriend is the jealous type and he is serious about dating her, he will ignore you just to keep her happy. However, you could try talking to him after church some time and make it clear that you just want to be friends. Myspace does not work for trying to fix friendships. If he doesn't want to be your friend there isn't much you can do to change his mind, just try to pick yourself up and move on to new things.

Answer 5

Yea you need to call him and ask him why he's acting like a child. I want to know why did you guys breakup? That may be the reason why hes avoiding you.  

Answer 6

As much as you want to be friends with him, clearly he doesn't feel the same way. He doesn't reply to you, won't look at you or talk to you.  LET IT GO.  You can't make him do anything.  Honor his unspoken request to be left alone.

Answer 7

Call him and tell him he's being a child.  If he doesnt want to be your friend just say so but dont avoid you...