How can I talk to people better?

Question

Hi,

Sometimes I think my life sucks more than anyone on earth when it comes to this area....

People judge me b4 they even know me....

I try to talk to ppl, but they either ignore me or whatever....

My friends that I have tell me all the time I come off as to shy & quiet, but then they say they got suprised on how funny & talkative I can get.

I guess I am just bad with introductions :\

I like ppl to talk to me first cuz I don't know what to say...

Every time I tried this year to talk to someone new they acted like I was talking to thin air!

I think I come off as to....Idk...ummm...un-interesting...

But it is so weird cuz my life is really interesting actually...and I like to talk a lot....and I wish I could talk....

Plus, I have one posssessive friend...who gets angry over me & new ppl...I have lost a lot of friends cuz of her...

Help me.

What can I say to people....I feel invisible :\

Answer 1

first u need to tell ur friend off.. about stoppin the jealousness.. lol.. i think maybe ur friend might like u a lil.. lol

and second.. just be open to everythin.. u no wat.. i used to be horrible wit introductions.. and everytime i still get nervous now.. but .. i try to focus on lettin my voice heard.. u just start basically..  with hi.. u dont wanna seem to happy .. idk.. it jsut like hi.. in a really high voice thing no.. lol.. it depends on who u are.. i say hey.. but anyways.. i usually go up to people tht are kinda like me shy.. and alone and see how they are.. if not i try to be funny and outgoing in any situation no matter how silly i look.. because people end up likin u after a while.. lol but most important be urself.. lol.. people tht dont like u for who u are.. arent really friends lol

Answer 2

HI!

this question is like mine cause I feel the exact same way it's scary!!

my friends don't talk to me and we don't have real convos. just like "hi watsup...nothing...ok cool..." yea. i feel invisible. i like to talk and i wish people would talk to me but i can't help it. i just never know what to say. and then i feel stupid so i don't say anything.....

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