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How can I talk to this handsome man when I'm so shy?

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I'm 20 and I work at Dunkin' Donuts : /. There is this gorgeous man that comes in once a week, and one day while I was making his coffee I heard him say to the guy I work with, "Man you're lucky. you get to work with beautiful women" and I'm the only girl that works at the time he comes in. I was thinking OMG (I have some self esteem issues so I was in disbelief). I just pretended not to hear him and gave him his coffee and smiled.

I'm pretty shy, so I can never think of great things to say on the spot when talking with someone. I just think of a question to ask, and I just ask it without any chatting beforehand : / So the next time he came in I pretty much stood off to the side like an idiot while he paid my co-worker for his coffee, debating whether or not I should ask him his name. Then I blurted out the question, and he answered (yay!) and I just walked to the back of the store (like an idiot). That was weird wasn't it? :( And he could tell that I liked him huh?

So now he still comes in, and comments on things, and he smiles a lot more than before, but because I'm so shy my mind goes blank and all I can do is smile like an idiot. I want to tell him things, but I can't find a way to introduce those things without sounding random, like when I asked him his name. Thanks for your help :)

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  1. give it a try he'll get happy too haha


  2. practice on a g*y  

  3. thats so cute !!!! well first of all...guys like it when a girl shows cofidence so whatever you do if you cant talk just stand tall and give that smile!  try to make little comments and dont worry about saying something stupid, he probably already catches ur drift that ur shy :] just dont walk away! you should say things like " have a good day...mr......???? and let him finish ur sentance by giving you his name..things like that..GOOD LUCK

  4. put up aa pic of yourself n ill tell ya if he rally liked u

  5. just say something like "you come in here often" or something that has to do with work and then smoothly switch to a different topic or something.... sorry if i didn't help. good luck

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