I am a 29-year-old single mother of two boys.
My husband recently left me and as a result, our 9-year-old "Mark" has turned into a ferocious, out of control boy.
You will not believe the things he does. He has been suspended countless times from school, he steals from my purse, destroyed some of my most valued things, cusses frequently, and other bad stuff!
My 12-year-old son "Nathan" is frequently tormented and abused. Nathan had to get a lock on his bedroom door to keep Mark out.
My other family members are afraid to come over. I asked my parents if boot camp or a military school would be appropriate, but they said no. They said that sending a child away could create feelings of abandonment which would make the situation worse, and further deepen his hatred towards me. Plus all those stories about what goes on at some of those boot camps scares me to death.
When I asked my ex-husband to help, he came over with his new girlfriend. You will not believe the things Mark said to her! It made that woman cry and my ex-husband stormed out of the house, very angry.
I read Nathan's journal and found that he wrote very obscene things and draws very violent pictures of Mark! I didn't make a big deal about it because I knew that Nathan really felt that way.
We can't even go out in public! I have tried various things, but they never work! When I punished Mark by sending him to his room and locking the door, he DESTROYED his room! There were holes in the wall, broken glass, all sorts of stuff.
Mark just a few weeks ago locked Nathan in the basement and left him there the whole day while I was at work! Also, a few months ago, Mark kicked Nathan right in the chest and cracked a couple of ribs!
I am at my wits end and I just don't know what to do! Could his horrific behavior have something to do with the fact that he has no dad? Since when I was married, Mark was a perfect little angel?
Help me!
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