How can I teach myself to fall out love quickly?

Question

It often takes me months - years.

Everyone seems to be able to get over someone pretty quickly... why can't I?

Answer 1

The answer is "expectation" and then when it isn't met, disappointment... which is taken personally.

When you are able to realize that everyone you meet is a Karmic obligation, and that each of these is "intended" to end... sooner or later, then attachment seems somewhat foolish.

Peace

Answer 2

Anyone who has ever truly been in love has known this pain.   You love deeply.  You hurt deeply in times of loss.  Respect yourself and grieve the end of the relationship.

It normally takes half the time you've been a relationship to 'get over it.'  

Take a time out before you get into another relationship.

Answer 3

It's gets easier each time.

Answer 4

Stop thinking of them in a positive way, think of all the horrible things they have done to you, stop expecting to get back together, find someone better. :)

Answer 5

It's pretty difficult my dear and yet it's so easy to fall in love. But in most of my situations i always try to keep away from the guy for some time until i've sorted myself out coz believe me, the more you try to see him the harder it becomes to let go and the more you you try to get back with him, the more you irritate him and he'll start seeing you as a looser.

The other thing is know your worth, girl. Most men don't know what they want. Look at your self in the mirror and you'll be shocked when you see yourself as a fool crying over a guy that has most probably moved on with his life.

And finally, You know God knows all things that have, are and will happen in your life. So commit your life to God and he'll see you through. Like Adam and Eve, God knows you need a companion much more than you do and he knows the right timimg. Talk to Him about it and he'll give you directions on which relationship to take on coz believe me....if you've accepted Christ and you know your God, the Holyspirit will always convict you every time you're going to jump into the fire. It's what people always refer to as "something told me not to do it" The Holy Spirit is that same person that communicates with your spirit to give your inner person an intuition. Don't resist Him and He'll give you a peace of mind and your life will be perfect once again.

God bless you

Answer 6

You are you.  Try not to compare yourself with other people.  Falling out of love quickly is not easy. Take your time.  It all depends on you.  I would try distancing  yourself from the person. start hanging out with other people. Maybe find a hobby.  

Keep yourself busy. Stay focus and stay positive.

Answer 7

it's alright to tale it slowly. but sometimes, all you have to do is to tell yourself that you are over him and start living your life. ^_^

Answer 8

there is a known chinese method for forgeting someone, even if nasty it works everytime, here goes:

1. Picture the person taking out bugers and eating them like there´s no tomorrow.

2. picture them in the toilet having the worst case of diareah in the world, and smell the air..

works great, good luck

Answer 9

attend a gentleman's review, it's the closest thing to the lap dances I get at local venues.