How can I tell her that I'm not mad at her for rejecting me?

Question

right, last yr. I made the move by telling her how I felt, so she rejected me, I was hurt but okay about it, I wasn't mad at all. but then after I kinda went recluse, hot n cold with friendship, I was embarrassed, but she got the Impression I hate her when really thats not it.

now one of my friends has a class with her, my friend is now friends with her always texting her and stuff, yesterday my friends said to her what did you do to (me) last yr. cause (I seem mad)she said about you, and then she said well She's mad b/c I rejected her I guess, which is not but I was really hurt of what she did after what happened. now theres this awkwardness in the hall ways when we see each other(her), I tried to be nice, but I'm still avoiding her

stupid high school

Answer 1

tell her as it is

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Answer 2

Um...TELL HER. You should have solved this a while ago. If it doesn't bother you, why the heck won't you just tell her that? It would make both your lives so much easier.

Answer 3

My goodness. I can completely relate to you in this situation. Currently, my friend who's friends with both me and the girl that stopped being friends with me, thinks that I hate her when I actually don't. It's actually the opposite for me. Over the summer I told my friend, whom I thought I could trust, that I sort of developed a crush on her. She freaked out, like I expected, and tolled me that we can't be friends anymore. I was hurt that she would just abandon me like that, so I asked why she said that. She claimed that I treated her badly and that I was "downing" on her religion, which I never did in that manner. She and I would often get into religious debates and she didn't respect the fact that I don't believe in God and Christianity.. Anyways, it was all down hill from there.  So now it's kind of awkward for me to even walk by her during lunch each day... High school totally blows. Hahaha  

Answer 4

just talk to her. tell her exactly what you told all of us.

talk it out, work it out. you gotta get somewhere, and you can't get anywhere by not confronting her.

Answer 5

hey im confused r u l***o? idc if u r i like the pic do ya thing  

Answer 6

The usual answer >>Can we still be friends?

Answer 7

be up front...that is always the key

Answer 8

If you can't tell her personally, send her a card.

Begin by apologizing and follow on by telling her how you feel. Take Baby steps, she's your mom. When you become a mom yourself you'll understand that you cannot disown a child.