How can I tell my boyfriend to slow things down a bit?

Question

He likes to make out and undress me and the other day we got naked and almost had s*x. I stopped him at the last second because I wasn't ready for that but I also wanted to do it which is really weird.

Now he is going to expect us to at least get naked . how can I tell him we shouldn't do that? My sister told me that he is going to push me to have s*x. she was freaking out when I told her this. She gave me advice but I want to hear what everyone here has to say especialy other girls.

Answer 1

Take him to church and let the Holy Spirit convict both of you....then you can begin to enjoy a true and meaningful (vs lustful) relationship.

I pray you take this advice.  If he won't go, you go....God loves you and wants the best for you...He knows even better than we do what it takes to bring true joy to our hearts...

We all need to ask our heavenly Father to forgive us of our sins, repent (ask for help to turn away from our sinning),  believe Jesus died for our sins  and ask Jesus into our hearts....He is not only our Lord and Savior; He is our best friend...EVER...JUST ASK HIM....HE IS WAITING...HE IS LOVE!

Answer 2

If your not ready then dont have it and stop getting naked with him because it just makes things worse and he is pushing to see how far he can go and if you dont stop it now he will have s*x with you or force you too  

Answer 3

If he really likes you and respects you h**l understand your decission to slow down. Theres nothing wrong with slowing down your still going to go for it but at a slower rate. Just tell him 2 stop being pushy.  

Answer 4

JUST TELL HIM YOUR NOT READY. IF HE'S WORTH, THEN HE'LL WAIT................ I KNOW IT'S HARD, BUT DON'T HAVE s*x NOW. WAIT TILL AT LEAST COLLEGE. TRUST ME IT'S WORTH NOT GETTING PREGNANT BECAUSE OF.