How can I tell my husband I want to watch p**n together for foreplay?

Question

Just like any guy, my husband likes to watch p**n. I really hate the idea of him watching p**n alone though. So I was wondering if anyone has any ideas of how I can tell him I want to watch it together in exchange for him watching it alone.

I also think I have issues with jealousy. I'm worried that while we watch p**n, he will be more involved in watching the girl on the screen and think she is more attractive than me. Why else would he be watching it without me?

Answer 1

Well how is he to know that you would want to watch it with him? That is probably why he watches it alone. Also it sounds like your feeling a little bit insecure, your his wife, he chose you even if he is watching the girl on the screen its just fantasy you are his real life. I would just sit him down and talk to him about how you feel, and let him know that you would like to watch it with him.

Answer 2

why to tell him? just join him watching.

do you think tat even the girl he is watching is more s**y and attractive than you, he can get her?

what about when you watch with him that you see the guys you are watching are more attractive and performing better than your husband will you be able to get them?

this is the problem with all women, all women think that those p**n star will take their men which is ridiculous.

trust me, go and watch p**n with him you will get more benefits than him, and slowly he will stop watching p**n.

we men are more jealous than you.

Answer 3

him watchin has nothing to do with you or any of your feared weaknesses..its just a guy bein a guy..ask him to watch with you..he will be like wooohooo i hit the lottoo

Answer 4

wow lmao u kool as hellz but he wud pay attention

Answer 5

You need to let go of your jealousy before you sit down and watch p**n with him, otherwise you will be torturing yourself and not in a foreplay mood.

Guys are very visual people, when they see a naked women, they aren't thinking "oh she is so much more attractive them my wife" they aren't thinking at all...it's just a visual stimulus.  

Answer 6

I actually tried this with current bf.  he like all men watches p**n every now and than and I told him it bothers me and one night i suggested we watch it together.  He actually said no.  Said he didn't feel comfortable.  BC as women we know what men do while watching this and well for some odd reason he didn't want to .  I never brought it up again.

Ask him how he would feel watching one to see if it helps the foreplay.  Doesn't hurt to ask.

Answer 7

Do you really want to involve adult movies in your foreplay or do you just want to please your husband?

About your "jealousy issues" - do you watch p**n or look at naked men doing whatever? In either case, ask yourself  why?

Don't try and blame yourself for his actions. He is watching p**n because of the women. Unless the movies have actresses who are normal looking (including overweight, cellulite and sagging b*****s) I would say there is only one reason why he is watching it.

Stop pleasing him. When you submit in that way he will never stop. Make him feel the way he makes you feel and he'll stay away from the movies.

Answer 8

Just pop the porno in and sit down with him and watch it.  You don't have to have a long talk about it.  He will probably love it!  :)

Answer 9

I haven't met a man who doesn't watch p**n. Pop it in the player and get your groove on. But, I wouldn't expect him to only watch it when your around. That wouldn't be realistic, but you can still enjoy it together sometimes. Don't worry about him thinking about the girl on the screen, he can't touch her.

Answer 10

Just tell him I'm sure he'll love it, mine does.

Answer 11

Just put one in, see wow he reacts, while he watching you make your moves on him. They are actors on tv, its not like anyone has a chance to hook up with them.. if it gets him going... go for it.

Answer 12

just tell him all this as you are telling 5 million people here

Answer 13

I simply told him that his p**n was outdated & I took him to buy new p**n with hotter chicks because those girls were grossing me out.  If I'm gonna watch p**n I would HOPE the people would be hot.  Do you want to watch some nasty looking chick s***w?  I mean really.  Do you want to watch a crackhead with jacked up yellow snaggle teeth, funky sores, all pasty white & chunky with a puss that looks like fried bologna?

Answer 14

You don't.. You tell him to go take a shower and when he comes out you have it all going and playing...He will love it.

Answer 15

Believe me he will be thinking of only you.Just bring a CD home and pop it in. and enjoy. Don't ask or bring it up just do it.

Answer 16

start doing something frieky like u knowt

Answer 17

He watches p**n because hes a guy.  And there are also a lot of females that enjoy p**n too.  I happen to be one of them.  He isn't watching it because he likes it better then you.  Do you read romance novels or chick flicks . . . no different.

If you want to watch it with him, flip it on and ask if he wants to watch.  He'll probably sit down with you!  No questions.  Who knows, it might spice up your s*x life.

p**n isn't anything to be jealous over...it is p**n - just that.  My ex use to get on me for p**n...and he is my ex.

Answer 18

just tell him, most guys would like for their partner to join then while watching p**n. Guys are visual beings and they need to see things, where women just need to feel them, not that p**n is going to do nothing for you, bc it most likely will. when you know that he is watching it, just join him, dont wear anything special, just go into the room and sit next to him and watch it together, when the feeling gets going you will both know and the movie will not be watched any more-for that night. dont make it a habit or he will expect this sort of thing all of the time.  

Answer 19

You need to realize that most men admire other womens bodies, it's in their nature. But remember who he is with, you!  If you decide to watch p**n with him you need to overcome your jealousy because it will ruin it for the both of you. Have confidence in yourself. Put on something s**y start up a p**n and invite your man in on the action. Things should go smoothly from there. Good luck!

Answer 20

What ever floats your boat. My wife hates p**n, but she does a good job on me:):)

Answer 21

He is watching it to jack off.  Plenty of women use it as a masturbation tool as well.

Put in a 'normal' movie and watch it together.  When that movie is over, go to the DVD player, take it out (cuz it's over) and slip in the p**n DVD.  It will start playing, he will see it, no need for talking, get busy.  

Ignore him while you watch it, don't look at him, look at the TV.  Make it all about you.  Just concentrate on the TV and how it FEELS while he is getting busy all over you.

Answer 22

it has nothing to do with what the girl looks like, its about the visual.  just tell, him hey baby how about watching one of your movies with me 2night?