How can I tell this leo my feelings??

Question

Theres this guy i dated about a year ago he hurt me pretty badly(long story) but he recently said sorry for it he wrote me said he has changed he knew he messed up and really wanted to be friends( he wrote alot more than that). I never really got over him!!! Hes been dating this girl for about a month and half. He started dating her 2wks after he wrote me. He says(ive heard) hes in love with her. I dont talk to him cause whats the point?? I really cant be his friend. I sent him a text not from my phone but my friends phone saying that i love him and that i hope his happy. Ofcourse he had no idea who it was cause he didnt know the number. He kept calling and texting asking who it is. But my friend never answers. It was just something that i needed to do. Atleast he knows someone loves him and wishes him the best. Was this wrong of me??

Answer 1

well honestly, i don't think this guy is worth your time because he shouldn't have left you because you didn't want to sleep with him! but i know what you're going through. you don't want to let him know exactly how you feel because you can never trust a guy and he might break your heart even more.

but this guy seems like he's a good guy if he actually apologized. he just probably doesn't know what he wants yet and he's trying to find love in different places.

it wasn't wrong of you to text him from your friends phone because it was just a way to let your feelings out.

what you do need to do though is either pull him aside and personally talk to him, send him an e-mail or text him to let him know the way you feel, but let him know it's you.

if you're willing to, be his Friend so that you won't lose him completely although i know it hurts to see him with another girl. let him know you're there for him.

hopefully you feel better.