How can I tell when a guy is interested?? I tend to think a man is then I'm proven wrong?

Question

I tend to over analyze, thinking a man is attracted to me when he isn't, as if I was 16 years old again, thinking if a man says hi he likes me. I'm kind of kidding there. However, I've been proven wrong, that the guy I'm dating or a guy I am attracted to does like me, so I wonder what to think. How can I really know when a guy is attracted to me by hisbody language & by other observations? I can play games, but in a nice way & I can be aloof, as a way of protecting my heart. Also, some women friends of mine tend to think I'm wrong when I say a guy is attracted to me, based on my poor track record with relationships & poor dating record. I think that when a man innocently flirts with me that he is interested in me, and sometimes I'm proven wrong. Or, I back away, which could cause the guy to back away, too. How do I know whether to trust my gut or not?

Answer 1

In my opinion, try to talk to her or in someway flirt with him.If he receive the messages, he will take acton

Answer 2

someone please help her answer this...i have the same question, but i'm a guy.

Answer 3

Just proceed with caution. Don't over do anything, but on the flip side, don't be too aloof as you say you can be. Flirt back a little bit, if he's interested he'll get the message and things can grow from there.

Answer 4

Help? A guy and I have this problem. When I show disinterest he shows interest. When I show concern he backs off. What to do? I just wana go have coffee with him-- get to know him, maybe we'll just be friends that's ok.  Good question. Sorry, I can't help you.

Answer 5

u can't just guess they r. u gotta ask  becaues if u don't they mit just lead u on