How can a 14 year old boy deal with this?

Question

i feel like the worlds passing me by, like every1 talks about how much fun yesturdays party was, how there excited for the moves tonight etc, and ive got nothing no plans ever because i have no friends, some times it pains me just to watch tv and see how great some peoples lives are, how can i deal with this feeling, dont say make friends cause i have none and its imposiible for me to make some

Answer 1

find a hobby and maybe you will meet people with the same interests.

Seek help at a free mental health clinic.  Ask your guidance counselor for information about local agencies for help.  You can get information about mental health places in the phone book.  It is hard to make friends sometime.  Keep reaching out to people.  Keep asking questions on this venue.  Good luck.  You could also get involved in church or salvation army or YMCA groups.

Answer 2

I had a lot of trouble making friends when I was your age too.  Its still difficult for me in fact.  The best advice anyone can give you is to stop TRYING to make friends.  Join some school activities that you're interested in.  Eventually you'll be able to build some connections with people who share the same interests that you do.  Or like New Mama said...make some online friends.  That's always a lot easier to do, and good practice :) You're welcome to add me and talk whenever you'd like as well.

Answer 3

Go do a columbine on your school,

Answer 4

i know how you feel

i dont know what to do either

but please answer my question

Answer 5

hey,

just try to participate in some things that interest you. like sports or whatever

there you can meet people who have at least one thing in common with you. just try your best to be social and nice to everyone...

im a 14 yr old girl, you can talk to me if you want

Answer 6

the only thing stopping you from making friends is your attitude...

Answer 7

find a virtual world. then you can talk to people and make friends. I know it sounds childish, but dizzywood is a good one. If it makes you feel any better i see alot of teens your age on there and i'm friends with most of em and im only ten. :) easy to fit in online because you don't feel akward. sorry if this doesn't help. During the summer I don't hang out with my friends so i turn to virtual worlds. but i am a lot younger than you and i'm a girl.  

Answer 8

Omg I'm one year younger than you but i feel the same way the best thing to do is just do things you like any hobbies or anything and just roll with that friends will find you when you least expect it EWW CORNY! just do what you love and be ur own person!

Answer 9

maybe get into sports. u'll find something to do and make friends possibly

Answer 10

aw im sorry, thats sad.

maybe you can hang out with some people? and you will grow on them, and become freinds?

you can talk to me if you want.

=]

Answer 11

aw you poor thing. the best thing that i can say to you is that this will pass. you will look back on this someday and laugh because I'm sure that one day you will make friends. When you are young everything feels like it is the end of the world. Not having any friends can be very difficult and i once went threw this to. Add me and i will be your online friend we can chat and at least you can feel like you have someone to talk to :)

Answer 12

One step at a time.  It seems to be that you should make the first move.  Go up to a lunch table at school and casually ask if they have room.  You're making an effort to make friends.  It's a start.  It also seems like you're just thinking about the negatives of your life.  Think of the positives.  Picture yourself talking to the people you want to be friends with, or picture yourself meeting a new friend. You could get anything you want if you put your mind to it.  Think of the positives of your life, and you'll be/do fine.