How can a Partner Lie ?

Question

Why do Partners lie when there got everything and have to have other relationships going, why do they put people through it.

Answer 1

They basically don't care about your feelings or your opinion.

Answer 2

I wonder that same thing.

Answer 3

Because they have made it all about them.  

Answer 4

Maybe bcoz they just get suffocated with all the affection showered on them and turn desperate to prove tht they are simply not worth it.Some questions in life simply don't hav straight answers.Just grind your teeth and bear the pain.Time heals all wounds.

Answer 5

selfish pride and self centered people looking out for themselves only

Answer 6

i don't know.  ask my 3 ex husbands and get back to me on that one

Answer 7

bc dey like teh drama and like WTF tey go and eatz cheezberger wit sum h0.  

Answer 8

Because they are very selfish, self-centered people and nobody else matters but them.

Answer 9

Is this a marriage partner or just a mate?  

Unfortunately, some people are just never satisfied with what they have. They are always looking for something better, but the grass is not always greener.........If this is a spouse, remind them that they made a commitment   If it's a girlfriend, then perhaps now is a good time to get out of a relationship that you cannot trust.

Answer 10

Maybe you should just stay on your own you sound like you hve a lot of trust issues.

Answer 11

My ex once told me that he cheated b/c he wanted to get as much s*x from as many people as he could. He was horny and not fully committed. He lie b/c he wanted his cake and wanted to eat it too! His loss. I'm assuming that you have been hurt and I am sorry. The pain will dissipate in time.

Answer 12

It is fear of facing ourselves through the truth... Truth has this freshness that is indistinguishable. We all have lied at one point or another and for a variety of reasons. We all have betrayed someone or have been betrayed at some point in our lives.

A lie, though, is not sustainable, it leaves a trace, an odor, and a partner can pick it up in many ways. Moving from deceit to truth is one of our challenges in life, a test of whether we are moving ahead or not. That is the most important question whether we are ready to have the sincerity to acknowledge when we have lied and ask forgiveness.

Answer 13

based on my experience with a cheater. the other person is just not thinking of you at the time or when they are with the other person. You know the saying the grass is always greener on the other side. Or maybe you are just give to much and they are bored. if this is the case then you can do much better. I know it is HARD especially since you have put some much into the relationship. If they cant see that you are the one then they are not worth you time.